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why does he say that he will meet me then doesnt?

he’s disappointed me two days in a row. he said two days ago that we would meeet up at six, so when six came he rang and said that his dad wouldnt give him a lift :/
then he suggested to go today, but when i saw him today he said he cant make it. lets go tomorow or friday.
i was devasted both times.
whats he doing/ is he doing this because he doesnt like me?
[we dont go out by the way] or is it cause he doesnt want to meet up?
i’m so confused. he has a gf but its not going well and we were gonna go out and just talk about things.

eughh so frustrating. lads? why do you do that?
xx

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goldresistanc offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Im sorry. Hes a douchebag. You obviously have feelings for him. I think that maybe hes confused too. Sometimes when guys are confused about how they feel about someone they act weird. Its dumb, but its how we are. ;)

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treetatr offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

Actions speak louder than words. He will always have an excuse, as to why he was late or a no-show. I bet if you start to push him away he will come running. When a person SHOWS you what they are like, believe them right away. Don’t try to make excuses for it or him.
This may sound strange, but you should take better care of yourself. If someone did this to your best friend what would you tell them to do? Dump him, RIGHT?

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