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?? please i posted this before and got one answer….ive answered alot and i joined like a day ago….well there are these boys in my estate and im afraid (not so much afraid as intimidated) to walk past them in case they say something to me.Even if i hear them from my house i get intimidated. they have yelled things at me a couple of times before and i try to ignore them but i think they get satisfaction from that. This has been going on for nearly 3 years now. I used to have a friend where i live and she used to be intimated to but then she changed and started hanging out with a new girl and now shes friends with all the boys shes all full of her self now and i doubht she gives a **** about me even though we used to be best friends. I no there just boys being boys and im not going to tell there parents but im serious when i say i cant pass them.if i hear them i just turn around and try avoid them. They play football in my estate aswell and if i hear them I just turn around and go home.I cant walk my dog anymore cause i get scared. I no i sound pathetic but i just get so nervous. They never say anything when theres only one on their own . But theres nearly always a group of them and most of them are in the year ahead of me. I just dont no what to do. Im not a chatty person espeically with people i dont no so i cant just talk to them. They used to play dares on me like theyed ring my doorbell (and say something) and i only ever answered once but i said something completely stupid then shut the door .I just really need advice.I also dont want them to hate me?? I dont get what there problem is. I no if i try to talk i will say something completely stupid and i will look like an idiot which would only give them more reasons. Ive done nothing to them. Theres just being a-holes..its really bringing down my confidence ..as far as i no some of them are quite popular which doesnt help the intimidation side of it :(
P.S im 15 and they range from 15-17

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

You’re pretty normal for 15… it’s not the end of the world you just need more confidence.

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pennylong8 offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

i no ralph…i said that in the post…i need to no what to do about my situation….having confidence is easier said then done

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praizin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

I was always shy but found that rudness was a way to hide that so they may be just a shy. Try bringing chips or something to share with them. Hand them the bag and walk off. Bet they won’t know what to think. Sometimes it is better to face a fear head on.

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