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My life was going good i stop cutting wen i found out

i was preg i was happy and that but yesterday i found out my baby had no heart beat nd now i feel like cutting so much i have lost the thing i stoped 4 i just dont think i can do this anymore i realy need 2 cut

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gavin.downe offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

First, Read Mis Jessica Bunny’s Post called WARNING

Then think about the fact that even if you have lost this baby, you still have the opportunity to have another. If you continue to cut, you take that chance away.

Do you have a partner? Does he know you cut??

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CarolynClark offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

throw out any sharp things or have them put away by someone you trust, occupy your time with busy activities so you stop thinking about it, and get a suport system to help you stay on track. trust me, my cousin did this but sucessfully stopped and hasnt done it in a year. stay strong.

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xxxxx offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

yh i have a bf and he knows bout my cutting

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gavin.downe offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

You need to tell your bf about this. He is the closest to you and needs to know you feel like cutting again. I hope you can trust him to help you through this.

You can get through this.

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CarolynClark offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

i agree. if it’s just you fighting this battle, you’re not going to win it as easily.

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xxxxx offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

I dont want 2 add that 2all the other stuff hes dealing with

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CarolynClark offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

ok, look. this is really serious. he can help. if he’s not suportive,close friends and family will probably be willing to help you.

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xxxxx offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

Not meny people know bout the cutting nd i dont rely want them 2 i just cant tell my bf that i feel llike cutting cuz he go so much 2deal with Atm

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trekkie offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

If you feel like you can’t tell anyone that you’re tempted to start cutting again, not even your boyfriend, then do something to preoccupy yourself. Surround yourself with people who love you and make you feel special. I am so sorry for your loss. My mom had two miscarriages. It’s devastating. But don’t consume yourself with the negative. Your emotions are driven by your thoughts. Negative thoughts are reinforcing. The more you think bad things, the worse you feel. Every time you feel inclined to cut, think of the child you will have, and all that you have to live for. The longer you feed a habit, the harder it will be to break it.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

I’m tempted to kill myself because I forget what life is about sometimes,
Then I take a step back, I realize that I want to live life with all the pains and griefs that it gives me, just to live for that person, that joy, that I know is sure to come.
~Kjo

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