Love help: I am aggrivated and frustrated. - Help.com

Exhales*..Wow..
See this is such a huge problem, so many people get kids before they are ready.

The best way to fix a relationship is space. Even just a week. You don’t have to spend money either. Just go somewhere and stay, live in the streets even, thats what ive done(had the money to do a hotel but why blow it?) its very relaxing to look up at the stars sitting on the pavement(or grass), its not what people think.

And life hands you lemons, it always will, sometimes things just can’t be made into lemonade. Your best chance is to figure it out but relax while you do it. A jacuzzi is the best investment you can make in my opinion. I go out almost every night to just sit, think, and relax. It has amazing effectiveness.

Sighs*
Unhappy in every way? Do it.
Just drive.
Drive to wherever
And then come back
It feels good to drive
Nuff said

DO WHATS BEST FOR YOUR CHILD AS THAT NATURAL INSTINCT IS TO PROTECT YOUR CHILD. As for relationship wise if ur unhappy and you think it won’t change you gotta change it for you to be happy and make a more positive you. I don’t know your situation but as a father of one son, I work and struggle to provide the best for my son and still as you feel I could do betta. Would love a relationship but feel it might set me back or don’t have time for one. I’d suffer through hell just to make him the best life and I come second as far as my needs. GOOD LUCK !

Thanks guys…clone1 you are right..I THOUGHT I was ready to be a mother..I discovered WAY TOO LATE that I don’t like kids. He is 8..and he’s awesome..a great kid…doesn’t listen but most 8yr olds don’t. I will make an attempt at the alone thing…Samspade…we are in the SAME CAR..driving alone…butjust like you..I could NEVER leave my son. As much as I don’t think I am the greatest mom..no one could be a better mom to him than I can..NO ONE will raise your girls like you can…It will get better for both of us…I hope

Things don’t get better by themselves.(Well most things, and i expect that won’t be any different)
Be proactive, you can’t be a good mother or a good wife until your happy with yourself
Sad but True

Yea fullio, unfortunately most guys out their are assholes.
I know most of my friends are.
My gf tells me all the time how lucky she is to have me when i feel its so the other way around
Thats how a relationship should be, in my opinion. Nothing you dislike about the other person, most can’t be like that but we lucked out enough to, so far, been able to achieve that.

Congratulations.

Im the GUY that jacks the posts.
Geeze that guys thinks im a chick >.>
Should beat him up.

Think we got off topic somewhere here