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Let’s see single Dad with 4 kids Mom not a Mom.

Divorce is final and done she provides nothing I have the 3 oldest 100% of the time , but she does take them to dinner 2 nights a week the youngest I have 70% of the time. She got the 2 cars and the courts left me with my sons 1976 Dodge Aspen was laid off in November the courts say she does not have to participate financially with the kids inspite of my situation. So shes still doing what she wants she makes more money but does not have to help. I am trying to start my own business since no one wll hire me ugh and have to take care of the kids. So I get a girl friend who really ends up being married says she has been done with him for 2 years and wants to start a life with me so we thought now I take time away from her kids but now we dont see each other and she is not with her kids Boy I am tired need a a break and does anyone want a rrelationship anymore!?

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Let’s see single Dad with 4 kids Mom a freak and wanted to be a whore and not a Mom. Divorce is final and done she provides nothing I have the 3 oldest 100% of the time , but she does take them to dinner 2 nights a week the youngest I have 70% of the time. She got the 2 cars and the courts left me with my sons 1976 Dodge Aspen was laid off in November the courts say she does not have to participate financially with the kids inspite of my situation. So shes still doing what she wants she makes more money but does not have to help. I am trying to start my own business since no one wll hire me ugh and have to take care of the kids. So I get a girl friend who really ends up being married says she has been done with him for 2 years and wants to start a life with me so we thought now I take time away from her kids but now we dont see each other and she is not with her kids Boy I am tired need a a break and does anyone want a rrelationship anymore!?

lostinatoodarkpark offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
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i agree with NoGifts
your marriage ended and its causes a lot of pain and anger
and what the courts decide is not necessarily always just or fair
but unless the sitution changes you probably cant do much about it

so there is also no point just being angry- its not gonna help you or your kids
even though you probably hate your ex wife, she is still your kids’ mother
and it’ll just make things harder for them if you keep showing that anger when they are around

just try to be the best dad and the best person you can - im sure there are enough single women out there that would love to have a relationship with you

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