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Okay i have a huge dilemma, my boyfriend and I have

been dating a long time but he moved and we can’t see each other, my mom refuses to let me go alone which I understand but with that said I would have to save up $1,000 just for me and her to go and that is just the trip fee plus it will take me like 6 months to come up with that type of money and by then my bf won’t be available, my boyfriend can pay for me but he can’t afford $1,000 so he suggest that I go there for a week but that means I would not have my moms permission so I guess that would be running away I wanna go so bad but I do not know if I should or not but I REALLY wanna see him and I miss him so much =/ but if I go I would get in huge trouble with my mom. So I do not know what should I do?

p.s. there is no other way to see him for 1-2years. (I am 16)
I understand this sounds like just a teen romance but I have been through so much stuff i am 100% sure this is true love. please don’t be biased because of my age.
i am not moving to his area it is just a visit. and my mom says i absolutly cannot go, she dosn’t support our relationship because it is mixed race (she is really old she dosn’t know better.)

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If your boyfriend won’t be available in 6 months it’s not ttrue love…trust me

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