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I Really Have no Ideah What to Do Please Help Me I feal So lost.

My boyfriend moved away we have been dating a long time, the only chance i have to see him is coming up soon this will be the last time i can see him for 2 years and my mom is refusing to let me visit him without her, i understand it but i would have to save up $1000 just for her and me to go and that is just the travel fee! that will take me like 6 months to make and i don’t have that kinda time, my boyfriend can afford my ticked but not hers so he suggest i go for a week and then go back home but that would mean running away, i want to so bad but i am afraid my mom might hate me if i leave. She dosn’t approve of our relationship because it is mixed race (she is REALLY old she can’t help it) (I am 16) but please dont judge my age and think this is a teenage fling. Please Help me i have no ideah what to do =/

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stevierayvauhanisawe offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 73 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

why do you have to go so soon? is he moving again or somthing?

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paigey_p1 offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

shuanmorganisawesome wrote:
why do you have to go so soon? is he moving again or somthing?

no it is alot of personal stuff will be going on that will pervent us to for a while =(

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whyno offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Sounds like a tough situation, to say the least. Why will this be the last time you can see him for 2 years?

How old is your boyfriend?

I hate to say this, but you are probably creating much more trouble for yourself if you leave without permission. Is it possible for you to pay for him to visit you? Then you will only be paying for one ticket (It sounds like he can pay for his own) and your Mom can be around too. What do you think?

Best of Luck

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stevierayvauhanisawe offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 73 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

well if ur mom insists on going she should have to buy her own ticket right?
i’m not good with get money quick ideas but maybe ask another friend to loan it or somthing?

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

whyno wrote:
Sounds like a tough situation, to say the least. Why will this be the last time you can see him for 2 years?

How old is your boyfriend?

I hate to say this, but you are probably creating much more trouble for yourself if you leave without permission. Is it possible for you to pay for him to visit you? Then you will only be paying for one ticket (It sounds like he can pay for his own) and your Mom can be around too. What do you think?

Best of Luck

No he can’t school is preventing him from coming here plus he has to work and such. Me and him have gone over every possiblity. I wish but my mother says that if i want to see him she is not putting money out for my disgracful fling and if i wanna go i have to earn the money.

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paigey_p1 offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

shuanmorganisawesome wrote:
well if ur mom insists on going she should have to buy her own ticket right?
i’m not good with get money quick ideas but maybe ask another friend to loan it or somthing?

naw my friends are all the same age as me how could i get a loan xP

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whyno offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Ridiculous! Sounds like the boyfriend might be older??? Just curious….its another reason for your Mom to be upset.

I’m not sure how you’d even go about getting a ticket without your Mom though and if you get somebody else involved to do it you are risking getting them into serious trouble.

You might have to wait it out for his next school break and have him come back. Not sure what else to tell you except get a web cam and stay in touch as much as possible with him. Good luck!

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