i am going out with this girl for 4 months now and at the moment

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i am going out with this girl for 4 months now and

at the moment nothings going right and i feel like shes lost intrest but she goes to me i treat her as a princess and stuf and like we never saw eachother for 3 weeks and i thinks thats where she lost her feeling i think and like today she texted me saying i need to talk to you on tuesdayy and i kind of got worried and texted her back saying you said you need to talk to me.. is everything ok and then she texted back saying i want u to know wateva i m gna doo i m thinkin bout bof our lives and future n like i asked her.. r u happy wif me n dahh.. den she txtd back sayinn..jus wait tuesday cums ..like i got one dirty feeling that she going to break up :|.. and like i texted her saying r u free can i call you.. she goes shes already on fone.. like i dont really wana leave her i love her alot :| .. wah shal i do?

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sunxfyre 7 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

From personal experience, I’d say stop worrying so much and showing insecurity. Doing so will most likely make her feel less and less attracted to you until what you most feared comes true.

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friendlyheart 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (54 minutes after post)

tell her what you feel and ask her what she feels..
and accept her decision…
but wait till she want’s to talk to you.. and till that she might change her mind.. so don’t worry, whatever will be will be, so by worrying you won’t make things better, jsut worse.. stay calm and let us know how things are going for ya:)

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rockasmil 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Relax…! You can’t force a relationships. Healthy relationships take 2 people. If she’s not feeling the love, there isn’t much you can do. You anxiousness is not helping either. I know you probably can’t handle it considering the situation, but try to tone it down a bit. You can probably feel the nervous vibes from you, believe me that won’t help you bit. You have it be sure about the relationship for her to be reassured. Think about it: if she does end up breaking up with you it could probably be because she felt you were overbearing or unsure of your intentions for being in the relationship.

In the meantime occupy yourself with something else, do the best you can to keep her off you’re mind.

Remember: Regardless of your feeling for her, she is NOT your life. Whatever happens will happen for the best. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

=) All the best.

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