friends help: My friend is such a big flirt!

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My friend is such a big flirt!

Before she met her boyfriend, she used to flirt with anyone of the opposite sex, and she actually used to set herself targets when we would go out on the weekends- like “i’m going to make out with at least 4 boys tonight”, etc. About a year ago, she met a boy, and began dating him, and hugely turned down the flirting (turned down, not stopped). But last night she split up with him, and I’m starting a new school with her tomorrow- and I know that she will once again be ridiculously flirty with all the new guys we meet… and I won’t even get a look in! I’m so frustrated with her, and I don’t know how to get her to stop being so annoying!

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athnh 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

stop being her friend.. it make you look bad

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

you cant tell your friend what to do
she doesnt have a boyfriend anymore, so she can flirt with whoever she wants..

if it bothers you try talking to her about it
if you are lucky she’ll turn it down

other than that all you can do is learn to live with it or spend less time with her..

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (8 hours, 27 minutes after post)

The thing is, you have to love your friend for who she is..

And if it really bothers you, before you meet the guys explain to your friend, say;

“hey, i’ve got my eye on the blonde one.”

Or just state, that you dont want her to flirt with particularly all of them..

The right guy for you will see through her flirty ways…

Being flirty only is 10% of a guy liking her… Hopefully she has some personality to back it up.

(:

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5 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

OMG i have the same problem lol I just give her a dirty look and leave her with them…

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

I have the same problem! If she is someone you can talk to then maybe you could have a word and just say. However, some girls like this so you may be best to just leave it and avoid seeing her as much. She must feel intimmidated by you if she feels she hasto flirt all the time you two are around guys together, as you dont feel the need to flirt as your not insecure.

Just be yourself and I agree with Candyieecane2 the right guy will see through her flirting. Shes only screaming EASY and so of course guys will come over to her! Just live your life and enjoy then sooner or later the right guy will come along, and as for her!? Well she’ll aways be in and out of relationships as she so insecure!

Good luck!

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