how do you feel?
who did the breaking up??
are youo upset?? hurt??
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I feel like Crap, I broke up with her but Im the one with the broken heart, very upset and very hurt. =/
Do you think it’s for the best? Don’t know your history so just wondered.
Part of it is. Part of it isnt. It just hurts ya know?
Break up suck. I’m not gunna lie it’s going to hurt tons. But you’ll be okay eventually, just stay positive. Guessing you don’t feel too confident with your choice in deciding to brake up? Brake ups are always bad for either side of it.
You are right. But She said she didn’t know if she loved me anymore. So I just said Goodbye. But she of course wants to still be friends and blah blah blah blah blah its like she doesnt even care about how I feel anymore.
Thats dumb. Guessing your a teenager right? I am too and i totally understand the whole “i don’t know if i love them” deal. Happened to me before… not fun. I also have many friends that do the same thing. But having that kind of drama isn’t good. I dated a guy for about a year and we both kinda lost interest, we just weren’t as mentally attached anymore, you know? and i kept it going thinking i could fix it and it killed me till the point i was desperate to brake it off with him. So maybe it was a good descion to get it out of the way early. But also thats my own persona experience with the matter. You could more than likily be on a whole nother level. If that makes sense that is lol.
I understand what you mean. Half of me wants to do the right thing, but the other half wants to fix things. And yeah Im 18. I just need to find some way to get over her =/
Classic but about 80 something % affective, go with your gut. Did you and her talk about it together at all?
Yep. She thinks a break was a good idea.
Wow… Sounds like my ex :S lol. So are you having a break up or just a break?
To me break means breakup, cause if she asks to get back together I want to say no. It all in the end doesnt seem worth it.
No, it’s not worth it. It’s terrible when relationships get dragged on like that. Taking a break… getting back together… Having another brake… Then back together… Just a worthless rollarcoster of drama. I personally hate drama, i try to stay out of it as much as possible :) So for me avoiding the whole rollarcoaster thing to me sounds like a good idea :P
But who knows, maybe you have a thing for drama… idk.
Lol, I dont. I have a thing for solving it. Thats what I normally do. I help my friends solve their drama. I want to stay out of it, but Im afraid part of mewillbe weak and take her back.
Lol, thats exactly like me. My friends get into huge girl drama and i’m always the one who sorts it out for them. Solving problems feel fun to me. I hate being in it but it’d good to solve it and make things better lol.
Yeah, that may happen. But you just have to stick with those reasons in your head of why your broke up, think about the future and what may happen if you continue.
Right, and yeah helping people just feels right you know?
It feels better than being in the drama. Plus it feels good to know you solved a problem and helped someone. I love helping people. I was sooo happy when i found this site. But i find i don’t help as much as i’d like to anymore. It’s just a fluke i saw your post and thought i could help. Even though i’m not in the best state of mind.
I don’t think it’s proper for me to talk about how i feel on your post, i guess it’d be kind of rude of me lol.
can’t say I can be of much help, I’ve never actually been in a relationship. Buttt, I have watched many of my friends go through relationship after relationship and end with broken hearts, its a trend in highschool haha.
Well this is all I can give you:
You have to be strong. Eveyerone has strength in them that they don;t know about, they just gotta find it. So toughen up and tell yourself that you are okay, and eventually you will be. I know this sounds obvious and not very helpful, but it’s really just about believeing in yourself. Don’t think about her. Harder than it sounds, I know. But you need to wash her out of her life before you can move on and feel happy again, get rid of things that remind her of you etc. Everything (or well, almost) comes to an end. So you need to realize that this was the end, and it was supposed to end. “Every new beginning comes from beginning’s end” now that’s just ironic cuz that song was just playing on my radio haha. But it’s so true, this is the start to something. There will be plenty of other girl’s in your life time, one day you will forget about this one. This is all part of life, experience. I know it hurts, I know you just want to run away and hide. But don’t. Pull yourself together, you’ll be okay. :]
Good Luck!
To Jayde I asked so its fine :p and wally wow O_o Thank you very much I believe that you are right:p I just need to be strong and get through this thing. Its possiblejustnot practical. But all it takes is a littlle hard work.
You are quite welcome :] hey if it works out, maybe I’ll take my own advice lol.
It’s very possible, ur right though it will take a lot of hard work I’m sure it’ll be worth it in the end though
How about i just shout you so i don’t distract your post or anything. I still find it weird talking about my own stuff on someone elses post =P. Don’t ask me why… I’m just like that.
Lol sounds fine to me :p, and normally its a good idea to take your own advice cause most of the times its right. :p We just dont think it is.
yeah, I know I am stubborn haha. and kind of a hypocrite…but I will try :]
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