Why is it that if i want to hurt myself i cant without an adult - Help.com

that is a stupid question, not to be mean!!!! but of course someone will intervene… they dont won’t to see you hurt, even if you say it feels good.

“Dont you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him; for God’s temple is sacred and you are that temple.” 1 Corinthians 3:16

Kwstar wrote:
i know where u r coming from but u dont have a sick mind i should be able to do what i want with my body i hate being a minor

but seriously, put yourself in their shoes. if it was someone you loved like your mother, brother, sister, or daughter …what would you do?

I know that physical pain temporarily drowns out the pain you feel inside, but it doesnt solve your problems by any means. What is it that you are hiding from?

Kwstar wrote:
ya u r right but they dont know and wont find out except the fact that the dean at our school, and my tae kwon do teacher who I love and see everyday knows my past and see right through me knows my past and know ive been having urges and she told me if she suspected anything shed tell but she wont bc she hasnt seen anything but… i kinda want her to save me from myself

There is more satisfaction in saving yourself

are you a boy or girl? and how many people know you hurt yourself?

You don’t need her (or anyone else) to save you from yourself. You have to do that yourself. But, you can get help. Talk to your parents, your teachers, your dean…keep talking ’till you get some professional counselling.

Don’t hurt yourself. That doesn’t solve anythign in the end.

ok. Well i know about some of the stuff your saying, and i know nobody knows what your going through, but i have an idea. tell me whats up. i dont judge.

What are you hiding from?

oh, and dont worry im a girl so i won’t flirt with you.

If your cut is infected, you need to go to the hospital right away. Can you call this teacher, tell the truth, and ask her to help you talk to your parents? You cannot ignore this.

1.) Stop hanging out with other cutters, they arent a good influence obviously
2.) Dont wait for someone to save you, no one can read your mind
3.) Stop pitying yourself and take action!

Cutting is NOT a constructive way of releasing emotions. You are tearing yourself down, when you really need to be building yourself up. Seek help, dont let it come to you.

one time my mom was like totally wasted and i was only 14 at the time and i was just so tired of seeing her like that that i just sat on the floor and kept scratching my wrist till it bled… i know thats not the same as cutting but it helped at the time. i only did it once because the next day it was pusy and hurt really bad, it got seriously infectd and now i have a scar.

Kwstar wrote:
idk know how infected it need to be before u go to the doc

There is no “how” infected. There’s infected, and not infected. If it’s swollen, red, has pus coming out of it, hasn’t scabbed over, or just looks or feels nasty, then you need a doctor.

Or you will lose your hand completely… that is the alternative

ewwwwwwwwwwww….i just threw up in my mouth, kidding, lol!

Kwstar wrote:
oh well my friend is a cutter to and well ok this is nasty but since it was a deep cut i stapled it closed so i took them out but she knows about infections bc she had one just like this bc she staples hers sometimes too and hers got infected and she said if i keep putting peroixode on it and cleaning it with soap and water and putting neosporan on it it will go away eventually even if it has pus coming out of it and there is a little bump with pus.

If it’s big enough and deep enough to need staples, it’s bad enough to need a doctor. Peroxide isn’t the best thing for a bleeding wound. It will kill the healthy cells right along with the unhealthy ones, and it won’t reach deeply enough into a wound to get rid of the bacteria. You need a doctor.

Kwstar wrote:
well i dont think in a real hospital they would have put staples in it I did with a stapler just bc it was fun but going to a dr. would require telling my parents sorry not happening unless my arm gets worse im not going.

So why did you log onto here if you dont really want help? I’ve heard numerous answers to your cutting problem (because it IS a problem) and you argue with all of them.

Gets worse? Define “gets worse”. If it’s infected, that’s worse. The next step is “needs amputated”. C’mon now…you know you can’t just let this go. You’re old enough and smart enough to stand up and take responsiblity for yourself. That starts with seeing a doctor right away.

Kwstar wrote:
well i dont think in a real hospital they would have put staples in it I did with a stapler just bc it was fun but going to a dr. would require telling my parents sorry not happening unless my arm gets worse im not going.

i know what you mean…. i didnt go to the doc , because i was scared of what my mom would say, but if it isnt better in a week promise youself you will go. you wont be able to cut yourself with only on hand, kidding, lol

I doubt anyone will think any less of you if you ask for help. In fact i would think it’s couragous. A lot of people give in to cutting, but you are trying to fight it. Keep being strong, tell your parents. Ask for help. You are better than your addiction, now prove it

actually you wouldnt know, how long have you had this specific cut?

Until you try to punch someone and your hand falls off lol

well, you seriously might not be able to see it spread, and it doesnt have to spread alot it could even just get worse in that spot and they just amputate that part.

Dr. Suave wrote:
Until you try to punch someone and your hand falls off lol

LOL

Now i spent a lot of time typing up how pissed i am at people who cut themselves and then cry to me.
however,since i know everyone will ***** at me, im now going to be more sensitive.
Its good that youre trying to stop but not good enough. Look yourself in the mirror. Your stronger then that and you know it.
Be strong. Don’t try to be just be.
Ill leave it at that.

bye im ging to bed.yawn………snore