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im 15 and my dad lives in nc and me adn my mom live in pa.

well he hasnt had contact with me for almost a yr. i just found out today that i left clothes down there so i txted him today askeing if he could send them to me. i told my mom that i txted him and she flipped ssying how could u talk to him without talking to me about it 1st and how could you “open another can of worms with him” after nottalking with you for a yr. UGH im so mad. i hate them both!!!!

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lyneee5 offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

hates a heavy thing!! maybe you dont hate them, your just confused?? your mum has her own stuff with your dad, maybe she is angry at him for whatever reason and its this that dictates her reaction. when i was your age i was in much the same situation. . .eventually i figured i should try and put myself in my mums shoes, after all, she is just a person too! i am a parent now and i am aware that sometimes i dont explain to my kids why i am angry. . .but i do tell them that even although im an adult, im still learning and sometimes i get it wrong!! if your dad gets back to you, and i hope he does, your mum doesnt have to have anything to do with your relationship, it doesnt mean that because he is in your life he has to be in her life!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

The next time you decide to text your dad, keep it to yourself. You’re 15, you should know what is right and wrong. If you feel you need to contact him after he wanted nothing to do with you for a year, then that’s on you. Why didn’t he talk to you for a year? Did he try to contact you, but your mom didn’t want you to talk to him?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

Are clothes really that important that you need to talk to him without talking to your mom first?

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