Help help: My parents are trying to break my boyfriend and me up.

dayja

My parents are trying to break my boyfriend and me up.

we’ve been dating for 2 and a half years. we didn’t do anything to upset my parents. the relationship has been long distance for a year and since i can’t drive my parents had to drive to let me c him. it was only an hour and a half if we met half way. we’ll be going to college in the fall and my dad is trying to force me to break up with him. i need help!

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littlenick 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

You’re how old and how old is he?

linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Relax.

Long distance relationships don’t work. Either find a way to be with him on your own or accept that this doesn’t make any sense. You’re clinging to him even more because you’re facing a big change in your life (college). If you go to college together, then maybe you’ll stick together. Maybe not. Life changes a lot at that age.

dayja 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

i’m 17 and he’s 18 we’re 6 months apart

dayja 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

i know if i could drive it would work but my dad wont let me get my license because it’ll increase the insurance. i’ve done all the classes and everything but have yet to get my license.

littlenick 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

r u a good student?

dayja 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

yes! i am a good student. my dad never says so though. I graduated with a 4.15 and was in the national honor society, with honors and received the presidential award. He is just proud of my younger sister.

linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

You’ll have to forget about getting what you want from your parents and search for a way to do it on your own. You’ll feel more confident and it will prepare you for a more independent and satisfying life.

dayja 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

idk how i can do it on my own w/o a car or a license i could get my friends to drive me but idk how that’ll work. My dad thinks that my boyfriend’s mom is trying manipulate everyone so she gets what she wants, now tell me does that make any sense?

linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

The point is this: what do you want? What can you do to make it happen? Who will help you and who can you not depend on?

Keep your eyes open. Listen to what people say but filter it through what you understand about their own needs, worries, experiences. Only you can make your decisions.

dayja 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 34 minutes after post)

thank you a lot linuxya that’s good advice.

Samantha N. 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 days after post)

My parents were like that too up to this day we have been broken up we were in a long distance relationship too but i was 13 and he was 16 but your old enough!
Don’t leave him just because they say so!
Do what makes you happy no what makes your parents happy!
Ben my boyfriend who is now my ex we still love each other oh so much we talk everyday
Hoping one day we will see each other someday even if were not together in the future
He is now 20 yrs old and am 17 now
But don’t do what my parents did brake us up!
You love each other stay together!!
Trust!

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Samantha N. 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 days after post)

we saw each other every saturday,birthdays parties etc…

and we lasted for 4 years tooo..!!

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dayja 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

I’m so thankful for all your posts everyone. Samantha i totally agree with you. I’m going to keep seeing him no matter what my parents say because i am old enough to make my own decisions and make my own mistakes.

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