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I hate my life!

Iruined everything and I don´t know how to change myself.
I´m lazy
afraid of people
ugly
a pretender
living off my parents
stopped going to college, don´t want to tell anyone
I just want to go to bed ad sleep sleep sleep and forget
:( :,(

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Anonymous #
5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Well, all those things CAN be turned around. Not fast maybe but you are persistent and you have the strength.

I used to think I was fat and ugly and then I just tried thinking i was beautiful and it changed the way I dressed and walked and i really became more beautiful

i can be lazy and afraid of people too.

i forgive you. we forgive you. we wish you a change.

good luck

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j_o_n offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Newbury, P4, GB | 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

hi i just did a post starting “hi this is an insight i had…” it might help good luck

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violin8rocks offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Breathe. It’s okay. We’re here for you.

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Anonymous #
5 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Get up off your *** and stop being lazy.

Whining and complaining isn’t going to fix your situation here buddy.

Figure out what you want, wake up and do something. We can’t help you if you don’t want to make the effort to help yourself.

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stephen_murphy773 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (48 minutes after post)

I don’t know, I could be wrong, but it seems as if you’re angry. Everyone has anger, and everyone shows it, or let’s it effect them in different ways. My anger at myself has consumed me….to the point of death. More times then I care to admit. I will not bore you with my personal trial and tribulations. My point is simply to tell you what saved me, from myself. Don’t fight the anger. Use it to your benefit. Don’t let your anger destroy you. Use it to help yourself, and if it’s your thing, others. If you feel like emailing me, feel free. P.S. Those that can’t understand the weakness you are feeling, are just too scared of there own to allow you compassion. Ignore them.

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Anonymous #
5 months ago (52 minutes after post)

Yeh, I am inclined to agree with sm77 - they say anger internalised leads to depression and depression leads to inaction. is there anger to be addressed?

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