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I’m in love with a married woman and I’m married too.

I don’t know what happen to me when start in this relation. She has one kid and I have 2 daughters. I’m very confused with this situation and sometimes I want to disappear. She have some problems with her husband and sometimes tell me she go to leave it. I have some problems with my wife too. It’s a very painful situation because I fell something for her that never feels for other woman. I’m thinking all the time in her. But, I think its time to get my life back and end this relationship because I don’t want to destroy so many lives. Help Me Please

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

DON’T DO IT!!!!!!!!!

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❤Natashka❤ offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

well it depends how long u think u have been in “love” with this woman because she might be ur escape from the problems u have with ur wife and perhaps u want to believe tht u 2 wont have many problems because it would be ur second experience..
but does she feel the same way?
and how long have u been married for?

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5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

the only way to long term peace is through behaving honourably and genuinely clearing up your sh*t

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~willard~ offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Well it sounds like you had it right. you need to end that stupid cheat of a relationship and be true to your wife! The only that will come from cheating is hurt, anger and so much pain that everyone will feel it! Even your daughters! Is that what you want? The only reason you feel something for this other married woman is becuase it feels like your young again, having a fling and getting all the newly married vibes…. thats about how far it goes…

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~willard~ offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Or have you ever thought about working things out with your wife? The only way you can work things out is to talk about them… if you dont want to talk to her then you have a pretty crappy marriage… communication is the key to a good relationship! Or have you forgotten that too when you said “I Do”

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Tjhe only time its okay to mess with a married woman is when shes YOUR wife.

Look if you really dont think its gonna work out with your spouse then you should leave her regardless of the other woman you have to find out where your head is, what do you really want?

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peterandjess offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

In similar situation. It sucks.

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~willard~ offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

peterandjess wrote:
In similar situation. It sucks.

You put yourself there…

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Anonymous #
4 months, 4 weeks ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

Ten years ago I had something similar. I decided to divorced and she too. Now we are married with one kid. My ex is really happy now with her new life. Think what you want and the take a decision.You need to know if she will do the same and do it.
In the life is very important take counsel of our feelings to has a life full of happiness. The first days are very painfull but later you going to do well.

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