Relationships help: Someone please help me……

klynn18

Someone please help me…

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I’m 21 years old and now living with my boyfriend who just turned 28. Sounds great but we are living at his parents house because things went wrong with my living situation. But now it has been several months and we are still here. Then, I was laid off and now work at his family’s work establishment. we got into a car accident, and he totalted his vechile. Ever since then I feel like he is extremely distant, all he does is dwell on that accident because of certain circumstances. And Im not sure what to do. He is always depressed and negative. I just don’t know what to do. Should I just go back to my hometown and leave where I am? Or should I stay here and feel used and taken advantage of? I’m not sure

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Sounds like you’ve already decided.

ScarLo18 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Have you told him how you feel?

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needssomehelp 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Sounds like you’ve already decided.

agreed.. seems like you don’t wish to stay anymore. the best advice i can give you is to just follow your instincts..

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~willard~ 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

Well before you run away… why dont you talk to him and see why he is acting like this.. or tell us the “special circumstance” that you are talking about. Maybe he just feels horrible because he cant provide for you the way he wants to… dont be so negative.. talk to him!

What the hell is wrong with everyone?

ITS CALLED COMMUNICATION PEOPLE! You need to learn to communicate with your spouse/partner or else it will NEVER WORK!!!! Its the most important thing in a relationship! Why are people all forgetting this main point? No one wants to be happy anymore? Has the economy brought everyone down that bad?

My boyfriend just turned 28 and i too am 21. I live with him and our friend and it works fine! You need to talk to him… or you can just run away

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littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Go home and be miserable by yourself. I don’t think you need to stay there and help your boyfriend be miserable. Better yet, think of how you can make progress in your life and move on.

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

~willard~ wrote:
Well before you run away… why dont you talk to him and see why he is acting like this.. or tell us the “special circumstance” that you are talking about. Maybe he just feels horrible because he cant provide for you the way he wants to… dont be so negative.. talk to him!

What the hell is wrong with everyone?

ITS CALLED COMMUNICATION PEOPLE! You need to learn to communicate with your spouse/partner or else it will NEVER WORK!!!! Its the most important thing in a relationship! Why are people all forgetting this main point? No one wants to be happy anymore? Has the economy brought everyone down that bad?

My boyfriend just turned 28 and i too am 21. I live with him and our friend and it works fine! You need to talk to him… or you can just run away

It’s not just “running away”…you can continue to compromise and compromise and compromise but there comes a point when all your doing is compromising your life to suit someone else’s.

BostonsBabyBlueS♥ 30 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

~willard~ wrote:
Well before you run away… why dont you talk to him and see why he is acting like this.. or tell us the “special circumstance” that you are talking about. Maybe he just feels horrible because he cant provide for you the way he wants to… dont be so negative.. talk to him!

What the hell is wrong with everyone?

ITS CALLED COMMUNICATION PEOPLE! You need to learn to communicate with your spouse/partner or else it will NEVER WORK!!!! Its the most important thing in a relationship! Why are people all forgetting this main point? No one wants to be happy anymore? Has the economy brought everyone down that bad?

My boyfriend just turned 28 and i too am 21. I live with him and our friend and it works fine! You need to talk to him… or you can just run away

I agree. Talk with him

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~willard~ 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

~willard~ wrote:
Well before you run away… why dont you talk to him and see why he is acting like this.. or tell us the “special circumstance” that you are talking about. Maybe he just feels horrible because he cant provide for you the way he wants to… dont be so negative.. talk to him!

What the hell is wrong with everyone?

ITS CALLED COMMUNICATION PEOPLE! You need to learn to communicate with your spouse/partner or else it will NEVER WORK!!!! Its the most important thing in a relationship! Why are people all forgetting this main point? No one wants to be happy anymore? Has the economy brought everyone down that bad?

My boyfriend just turned 28 and i too am 21. I live with him and our friend and it works fine! You need to talk to him… or you can just run away

It’s not just “running away”…you can continue to compromise and compromise and compromise but there comes a point when all your doing is compromising your life to suit someone else’s.

Ok well IN MY OWN OPINION! It doesnt look like she has ever talked to him about this or how she feels! Thus the reason i think if she loves him then she should talk with him. Instead of run away for no reason. What if his problem was something simple and all she needs to do is talk to him about it? Then the problem would be solved.. instead shes on here getting advice from you guys saying she needs to just leave… HOW BOUT WORK IT OUT??? Its all up to you! If you love him then talk to him.. if you dont love him.. you have been wasting a lot of time on nothing!

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BostonsBabyBlueS♥ 30 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

Ya, it does not look like you ever said that you had spoken with your signifigant other about it.

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~willard~ 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

BostonsBabyBlueS ♥ wrote:
Ya, it does not look like you ever said that you had spoken with your signifigant other about it.

Thank you! Holy Crap!

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BostonsBabyBlueS♥ 30 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

~willard~ wrote:

BostonsBabyBlueS ♥ wrote:
Ya, it does not look like you ever said that you had spoken with your signifigant other about it.

Thank you! Holy Crap!

No worries. i completely understand what you are saying. And you make a great point. Talking with your other half is the first step.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 month after post)

i AM A 57 YEAR old female widow. I just don’t what to do any more.I have given up on life. I have tried to commit sucide somany times, it,is unreal. I have one son who is 27 years.I have 3 micarrage before he was born. And after i finally I got pregant. I have try every birth method,and I finally got pregant.I have my cervic sown up and stay in the bed for 7 months,just to have this.If Ihad krow what I had to go throuh I would have had to go through I would go through I would have killed the both of us. I had a good husband But he died very young. to make a long story short. I had satan child . The thing he has done to me and my husband, you would belive. I don’ know what we did to make him to treat the way did. can you recommend to me some I can really talk.I hope someone before it is late, Please help me Please help me

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