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My best friend just did the one thing I thought she’d never do.

I doubted her so many other times. About everything and anything. Because she was doing so much for me. Always so nice to me, but even when I doubted her she always pulled threw. But there was one thing I knew she would never do. She said she’d never do it. And she did it…

She says she’d never had done if she knew it’d hurt me. She the nicest person ever. She cares for herself before others. Never would purposely do anything to hurt everyone. I don’t trust others easily, and she was the one person I let myself trust. Then she did the worst thing she could ever do to me. Because it was the one thing I was 100% she would never, ever, do. In the past she said she never would do it. Then she said things changed. But every time it was question I said “No, that would NEVER happen. EVER.” I never thought she’d do it.

But then she told me she did. And now she keeps saying sorry and she wouldn’t have done it if she had known I’d be hurt so bad. I don’t think there was a worst thing she could possibly do. Because this was the ONLY thing I knew she wouldn’t do. Everything else I could get over and move on because I’d have my doubts. But this I knew would never happen. I can’t face her. I don’t know what to do. I live in the same house as her. I can’t avoid her.

She’s the best friend anyone could ever have. But… I don’t think I can look past this. I’m in a new state where I have no friends. I don’t know what to do or where to go. I can’t go back home. I’m pretty much broke. Just. Ugh.

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Beautiful Redemption offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

…? what.

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Hyperpwnage offline Verified User (6 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

You’re just leading us on! D:

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xxDCxx offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

well… the firdt thing is if whatever she did was really bad shes is not a good friend to you… but make sure if its wateva she did was something not very serious dont go over the top…. honestly if she did something really bad I wouldn’t consider her my friends… let alone my best friend….

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Hyperpwnage offline Verified User (6 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe I outta try this with my posts…

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Anonymous edited this post 5 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

My best friend just did the one thing I thought she’d never do.

I doubted her so many other times. About everything and anything. Because she was doing so much for me. Always so nice to me, but even when I doubted her she always pulled threw. But there was one thing I knew she would never do. She said she’d never do it. And she did it…

Anonymous edited this post 5 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

My best friend just did the one thing I thought she’d never do.

I doubted her so many other times. About everything and anything. Because she was doing so much for me. Always so nice to me, but even when I doubted her she always pulled threw. But there was one thing I knew she would never do. She said she’d never do it. And she did it…

She says she’d never had done if she knew it’d hurt me. She the nicest person ever. She cares for herself before others. Never would purposely do anything to hurt everyone. I don’t trust others easily, and she was the one person I let myself trust. Then she did the worst thing she could ever do to me. Because it was the one thing I was 100% she would never, ever, do. In the past she said she never would do it. Then she said things changed. But every time it was question I said “No, that would NEVER happen. EVER.” I never thought she’d do it.

But then she told me she did. And now she keeps saying sorry and she wouldn’t have done it if she had known I’d be hurt so bad. I don’t think there was a worst thing she could possibly do. Because this was the ONLY thing I knew she wouldn’t do. Everything else I could get over and move on because I’d have my doubts. But this I knew would never happen. I can’t face her. I don’t know what to do. I live in the same house as her. I can’t avoid her.

Anonymous edited this post 5 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

My best friend just did the one thing I thought she’d never do.

I doubted her so many other times. About everything and anything. Because she was doing so much for me. Always so nice to me, but even when I doubted her she always pulled threw. But there was one thing I knew she would never do. She said she’d never do it. And she did it…

She says she’d never had done if she knew it’d hurt me. She the nicest person ever. She cares for herself before others. Never would purposely do anything to hurt everyone. I don’t trust others easily, and she was the one person I let myself trust. Then she did the worst thing she could ever do to me. Because it was the one thing I was 100% she would never, ever, do. In the past she said she never would do it. Then she said things changed. But every time it was question I said “No, that would NEVER happen. EVER.” I never thought she’d do it.

But then she told me she did. And now she keeps saying sorry and she wouldn’t have done it if she had known I’d be hurt so bad. I don’t think there was a worst thing she could possibly do. Because this was the ONLY thing I knew she wouldn’t do. Everything else I could get over and move on because I’d have my doubts. But this I knew would never happen. I can’t face her. I don’t know what to do. I live in the same house as her. I can’t avoid her.

She’s the best friend anyone could ever have. But… I don’t think I can look past this.

Beautiful Redemption offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

You have to let people be people. Honestly, you can’t really say anyone would “never” do anything because everyone is capable of doing anything, just put the right situation and temptations in front of them. If you love her as a friend there needs forgiveness to repair but she will need to understand that trust will have to be built again and you must not hold it over her head constantly.

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

So she slept with your ex?… forgiveable
Boyfriend?… dont forgive
Slept with him when u were on a break?… grey area.

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

I wish.

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

are you going to even say what it is?

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

What did she do to betray u?

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

I can’t say. I’m sorry. I can’t bring myself to say it. Type it. Whatever.

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Beautiful Redemption offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

ok well we’ll be here when you can in the mean time read what we have written before.

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

Your anonymous.. were here to help, but gonna lose patience soon

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

I agree.

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

I’m sorry then. Go ahead and head out. Sorry for wasting your time. I can’t bring myself to say it. The explanation is too complicated and “unique”. This website is too easy to find. Anyone involved would automatically be able to tell.

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (33 minutes after post)

Our answers wont match a problem we dont fully understand, so yeah … no point.
lata

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Beautiful Redemption offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

I trust if you really need help then you’ll ask for it.

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kt.loz.photogeni offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

well, i think she would feel reeally bad about it,
i just did this to my frend, i let her down
but i was drunk and i didnt mean it
and i feel so bad
if she hasnt explained it let her, there might be a good reason for me
but just give her a chance

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

kill your dog? rpae you? camp in a public park? bloodthirsty **** like that

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 days after post)

so i really wana know what she did. but you gota talk to her about it. ive been thru that with my friend but i was in ur friends place. we all make mistakes and say we will never do things and we do. people do change. but if ur friendship is how you say then its worth fightin for and can overcome anything

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