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Never put thoughts into other peoples heads and believe them!
It is very damaging and always wrong.

Dont brainwash yourself.

And most of all dont kill yourself, this moment will pass, u dont have to move on with anyone, but u do with your life, when its time again 4 love u will be in a better place to treasure it.

She wasnt the one.

Stop caring what others think
I wont judge u btw
I have suffered b4 2

But she won’t get you. I take it you are young. It hurts, but it’s a process you go through to learn. Try hanging with friends and moving on. Anybody that calls you a loser is worth your time anyway. Good luck:)

Cause she left u.
Its the hardest thing to accept it when things are over.
It will hurt but it will get easier every day

shes not worth it, If she’s your first love yeah its gonna be tough but you have to be brave and accept that you will find that someone special in a couple of years of course your gonna get other people but thas the process that your gonna have to go through to find that person who ur gonna marry have kids and grow old with if you kill ur self your never gonna have that.

It’s a life of torment with an unhappy journey of trying to please someone other then thinking of yourself. Never ending. Your friends may see this…love is blind:) Sorry, I’m not good at this topic.

Hey do you have family
(Its an honest answer im not trying to be funny by the way)

Are you sure you are 40?

No don’t Please don’t

You should stay with a friend:) Take a holiday with them.

No ur definatly not immature you sound very emmotional mabey u should talk to someone before suicide?

suicid wrote:
Please help me - i don;t want to die and leave her but I can;t see another way out

Please talk to someone first it may be the best decision u ever made. U sound like you don’t want to commit suiside then dont. U never know u may walk down the street tommorow and find someone else? There are always other ways to feel better suiside is not one of them and never is.

That’s what I mean….you missed the get over part when you were younger. Being pleasant or hanging with other people will help. From what you have mentioned, I think once you get over the grieving part and start having fun…she’ll be different. Either better or worst. Even thinking about death won’t solve anything. If something should happen to you, she’ll move on. Be the bigger person and get started on living:)

As i said before, I’m not real good at this topic. I know you have too move out of this funk. Buy a motor cycle and go on a tour or something. I have see this before and if you give it a couple of years and it was suppose to be ,it’ll be. This funk or obsession will drive you friends and family away as they won’t know how to help you. You do have the right to be happy, but it needs to be with yourself:) What are some of your hobbies?

“Give up, you’ll never get anyone as great as her again.”

fair point. I’m three years on and still feel that way.

The other side to this was that “having” someone so great that towards the end wasn’t into me was terrible for me. Not till I got selfish and realised having someone “not as good” on a global scale, was actually better for me, because I was a “pathetic loser” in many ways too. Had some wins since then, not so much a loser anymore, and not having someone who doesn’t want you helps a lot.

Get some music, get some fresh air, get some good food and sleep, and in a few MONTHS you might be able to make a plan for what you want in life beyond putting a woman on a pedestal and then getting upset when she won’t meet all you subconscious unmet childhood needs.

Don’t get over it, don’t move on. Experience it if you need, its a part of your life, and it HURTS. I remember hoe much it hurts. I was sucicidal for months, and one of the biggest rays of hope I clung to was when I talked to someone who’d truly been there and they said they remembered how much it had hurt. Past tense. The pain lessens, you learn, and one day you start a whole new chapter of your life. But not till you been down some tough roads.

Is there anything you’d want to do before you quit? got to be something?

OP: best of luck in your endeavors. and before anyone asks, yes, i did read the post.