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My ex-BF broke up with me 2 month ago and he now has a new GF.

I have been very sad and keep searching for his update (his and his GFs)everyday from websites many times. Like read his tweet updates etc…I know it is not good for me and I want to stop this “searching for his stuff” thing habit.But I found that I can not help doing it. What should I do? I am so miserable: losing a guy is miserable enough, and now I am getting this bad habit.

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emma_locke offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (2 minutes after post)

1st stop looking at his staus it’s only going to hurt you! 2nd get some girly mates and have a fun night in or out! 3rd move on! harsh i know but it works, read or do something that takes your mind off him running is great!

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

You need to move on.
Find a distraction, a good distraction, because that distraction might become a habit. Exercise, sports, reading, drawing, something that you would enjoy.
Set goals for yourself if it’s hard to stop. Try to stop it a little by little.

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I agree with emma. Running, hiking, or jogging is a great way to clear your mind. That’s what I do when I don’t want to think about something. Hang out with your girlfriends. That works too :)

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Find another guy… you’ll forget all about your old crush.

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