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i feel ugly and fat…

i know i am not fat and maybe i am pretty, but i just cant convince myself of it. i dont know what to do…

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Why do you feel like that? Did somebody tell you so?

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livluvsing offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

no everyone tells me i am skinny and pretty, but i just dont see it.
and yes i can see my feet…

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

livluvsing wrote:
no everyone tells me i am skinny and pretty, but i just dont see it.
and yes i can see my feet…

So it’s coming from your perception of yourself and how you think others see you?

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livluvsing offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

well i just cant convince myself that i am pretty. and not very many people tell me i am pretty unless i am bagging on myself saying that i am fat.

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livluvsing offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

this is a picture of me.

http://s448.photobucket.com/albums/qq…

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karely_roman offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

well if you don’t tell yourself your pretty nobody ous is going to do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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livluvsing offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

how to i convince myself that i am pretty?!

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

livluvsing wrote:
this is a picture of me.

http://s448.photobucket.com/albums/qq…

If I was a girl, I would want to be as gorgeous as you!!!!! :)

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livluvsing offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

thnx littlenick. but the thing is, i hear people say that and it makes me happy bt ten minutes later i still feel ugly.

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a6c1 offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

You should read this hopefully it’ll help you feel better about yourself and give you some perspective.

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/li…

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

You are a fine young woman. I think if you wore more flattering clothes (like a dress or something) and maybe did something with your hair, you would look and feel positively beautiful.
It could be that you don’t feel pretty because you don’t really feel like you’ve put any effort into it and think you don’t deserve it somehow.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

a6c1 wrote:
You should read this hopefully it’ll help you feel better about yourself and give you some perspective.

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/li…

Excellent article!!! Read that livluvsing!

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Likkle-Bit offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 20 hours after post)

in this case i think you just have to keep on convincing yourself and find all the reasons to believe it that you are. look at someone you think has it bad and then be happy for who you are(give it sometime too, and keep working on it)

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An Unknown Location | 1 day ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)
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