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i feel ugly and fat…
i know i am not fat and maybe i am pretty, but i just cant convince myself of it. i dont know what to do…
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no everyone tells me i am skinny and pretty, but i just dont see it.
and yes i can see my feet…
livluvsing wrote:
no everyone tells me i am skinny and pretty, but i just dont see it.
and yes i can see my feet…
So it’s coming from your perception of yourself and how you think others see you?
well i just cant convince myself that i am pretty. and not very many people tell me i am pretty unless i am bagging on myself saying that i am fat.
this is a picture of me.
well if you don’t tell yourself your pretty nobody ous is going to do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
how to i convince myself that i am pretty?!
livluvsing wrote:
this is a picture of me.
If I was a girl, I would want to be as gorgeous as you!!!!! :)
thnx littlenick. but the thing is, i hear people say that and it makes me happy bt ten minutes later i still feel ugly.
You should read this hopefully it’ll help you feel better about yourself and give you some perspective.
You are a fine young woman. I think if you wore more flattering clothes (like a dress or something) and maybe did something with your hair, you would look and feel positively beautiful.
It could be that you don’t feel pretty because you don’t really feel like you’ve put any effort into it and think you don’t deserve it somehow.
a6c1 wrote:
You should read this hopefully it’ll help you feel better about yourself and give you some perspective.
Excellent article!!! Read that livluvsing!
in this case i think you just have to keep on convincing yourself and find all the reasons to believe it that you are. look at someone you think has it bad and then be happy for who you are(give it sometime too, and keep working on it)
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