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I have a gf in the u.s.

and I am in Canada, I have visited her 2 times so far and the last visit I had she was supposed to stop smoking and stop talking to this other guy that always flirted with her. She didn’t do either of them and she made me look after her kid and clean up all of his mess, while she didn’t do anything. If I didn’t do it she would give me a bad attitude. 1 week left before I had to go home she found out she was pregnant.(from me)

I traveled back home because my visit was over and I feel like all she is doing with me is using me. I am supposed to go back there and live with her now but I am afraid that she will mistreat me. If I don’t go she is going to abort. I dont know what to do, would my life be better without her or with her, I know if I dont go I will suffer a lot of pain because I do love her

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

She’s using you and the baby may not even be yours. Don’t visit again until you know for a fact that’s your kid and just send support for that kid. She’s using you and she’s abusing you. If you are going to make it a permanent relationship, be prepared and bring your maid outfit! Make sure it’s a miniskirt because that’s all you’re going to be for her: a maid or a butler!!!!

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

And now she’s manipulating you by threatening abortion if you don’t go. Tell her to go f*** herself and tell her to abort it. More than likely there is no baby and if there is one, it’s probably not yours. Don’t let yourself by manipulated.

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

By the way, you’re a pushover and you need to grow a backbone!

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Joey_PR offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
If you are going to make it a permanent relationship, be prepared and bring your maid outfit! Make sure it’s a miniskirt because that’s all you’re going to be for her: a maid or a butler!!!!

lol

littlenick wrote:
By the way, you’re a pushover and you need to grow a backbone!

**** littlenick =O lol
I have nothing more to say because you pretty much covered all bases with what you said.

Anon poster, that ‘princess’ of yours has no respect for you, thats no healthy relationship either. You seem excessively insecure, and emotionally weak. I suggest you do a DNA test too. =/
She has given you enough reasons to have doubts about you being the ‘babys daddy’.

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