i need an answer quickly, i’m talking to someone i view

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i need an answer quickly, i’m talking to someone i

view as a best friend, but she doesn’t feel that way about me, and this is the third time in six months i’ve lost a good friend of mine. and she knows i’m upset, but she doesn’t know this is why. should i tell her? she’s best friends with one of the other two i lost, and that girl is good friends with the third person.

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Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

ummm…stop with the drama. your losing friends because of it. obviously

Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

oh and NO dont say anything…go with the flow dnt be upset youll be more likeable

daaancerx3 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

but the thing is i didn’t do anything! i don’t know what i’m doing wrong.

Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

You must be young. Yeah, try and just relax. Friendship isn’t as hard as your making it out to be. Fear of losing someone else won’t keep them from leaving. You will learn as you age that the harder you hold on to people, the more you push them away. People will come and go…yeah it sucks but it’s part of life. Don’t ask questions and let the chips fall where there may. =)

Arkia Valkair 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

daaancerx3 wrote:
but the thing is i didn’t do anything! i don’t know what i’m doing wrong.

Well at the moment you are both freaking out and doubting yourself.

Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Find some new girls to get with…Learn how to eat the box too…that always helps.

Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Find some new girls to get with…Learn how to eat the box too…that always helps.

lol

Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

it doesnt matter if you did something or not. im guessing your young but im older and my one friend was too much. she always wanted to hang out with me and was just tooo much and i just stopped talking to her one day and ignored all of her phone calls and would have talked to her once i had a break but she continuously called me overand over and then called me from blocked numbers and then had her friends call me …so i never talked to her again and couldnt be happier. SO back off have fun without them. if your having fun they will want to be your best friend. BUT dont let it get to you. or no one will want to be your friend. and dont let anything get to your head good or bad ANYTHING

STE3L 7 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

i whold

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