Im in love with a man who is still in love with an ex, but he loves me too; he cant seem to choose.

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Im in love with a man who is still in love with an ex, but he loves me too; he cant seem to choose.

should i wait and give him more time or move on

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Joey_PR 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Move on while you can.
Its no use if he still loves his ex, and even worse if he still maintains contact with her. He should be man enough to take time on his own and get involved with someone when ready.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Depends… How long has he been out of the relationship. Sometimes people don’t adapt to change very well and if he cares about you and vice versa then i would suggest being there for him as a friend. He is probably really stressed and under alot of pressure to figure things out so be there for him as a friend and keep your eyes out for opportunity until he commits to you.

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beatricegalant 9 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

If he is still whining about his ex then he is not over her. Choose someone else who is free.

srnityblu 3 #
Regina, SK, CA | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

Sounds like if he’s sitting on the fence, you are just a transitional relationship, something to fill the void in the mean time… been there done that and you don’t need the hurt.

Let him heal on his own while you get on and ENJOY your life.

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ameliaearthlin 22 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Move on.
He dikd u around long enough

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