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hi,im 30yrs old and have bin with my partner 4 11 months and we have a 6wk old boy!
basically i got pregnant wit him straight away and we decided 2 see it thru as we fell 4 each other pretty quickly. i moved in wit him n his dad rite away and then we got our own place in feb.before all this happened we were both the kind of people to be out drinkin n socialisin every wkend. obviously i stopped all that when fallin but he just carried on.i can be quite a jealous person and recently i feel like im losin my mind coz i comment or dig at girls especially when he looks at them.when we 1st got 2geva he told me he was the kind of bloke that likes cuddles kisses,intamacy etc and it was like that 4 about 2mnths but now he says that he only said that to ensure he got me coz he knows thats wat i liked.he says im the 1 with the problem and now his drinkin has got worse,he even got arrested at wkend(5 13yr old girls were involved).he had bin drinkin 4 2 days solid and cant remember anythin except sittin wit them and drinkin while me and his son were stuck at home.i dont know wat 2 think anymore.he blames me and says that he only gos out 2 get away from me and my constant moanin.yeah i do moan but it feels like he dusnt want 2 spend time wit me or our boy as a family.he will only take us out if there are ova people there or wit his sister.i feel like ive dun this pregnancy on my own at times and just ask 4 a little love sumtimes from him but he tells me 2 shut up and stop bein stupid.hes always callin me names like stupid and a lot worse which really hurts and if i cry it makes him worse.i end up bottlin things up which makes me feel like im goin mad.hes a typical lad and likes 2 look at ova girls but i would be ok wit this if occasionally he wud giv me a compliment especially after givin birth.its like i have 2 fish 4 them and then i only get “yeah u look nice”. i always have 2 say i love u 1st and instigate things 2 get anythin out of him.but when he wants sex hes so different and lovin.i find myself givin him wateva he wants when he wants just 2 get that closeness between us. i dont really no wat 2 do anymore.is it all me?there is alot more 2 all this 2..
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