Love help: My boyfriend is cheating on me :[

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My boyfriend is cheating on me :[

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, i am 21 and he is 22, we have never had problems and we argued very little, we also never had girl issues… well about just this month…we where at dinner and he had gone to the restroom and he left his phone on the table…a text message came up and it was from my little sis’ i was kinda puzzled at first but the text read “hey are you coming over to hangout with us today” and i thought nothing of it since he does spend time with my family… well 3 days ago…late one night i noticed my sis’ was up late and i noticed she was talking to someone in her room… well it was my bf and the worse thing was they started making out and it ended up going to the bed!….she is only 15 and i really love my bf he gives the world to me! and i wouldn’t want to get him in trouble…but at the same time it is wrong! how do i go about handling this!? i’m about to graduate college as a english major i can’t deal with this stress!

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entru #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Im a guy. And well yes. he is cheating on you. That is a fact. A harder fact is its your sister. Im afraid you will have to confront both of them. Sit down together and talk about it. The thing is. you might know whats happening. and Not knowing, ignoring this issue will not get you anywhere. My guess would be, your little sister is confused, alone or sad. And she wanted your BF to comfort her maybe because she has nothing else? And he did, but maybe he did it with too much love. That might be the thing.. And well, as guys, we make mistakes, we make horrible ****** mistakes. And you gotta tell us that. Dont hate us first. Explain to us. Guys are kinda blur sometimes.

I hope this helps. but still..

Good luck to you. And dont give up on love. no matter what happens.

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4 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

This guy seems to have alot of insight, I suggest listening, yes it will be hard to accept,but just know it wasn’t anything wrong with you, you didn’t deserve this.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (51 minutes after post)

Talk to your sister first. Your boyfriend’s betrayed you in pretty much the worst possible way, and you need her to understand that, and to understand her part in it. Hopefully this means she’ll be on your side when you talk to your boyfriend. Entru’s right that we all make stupid mistakes - it’s up to you to decide whether you can, or want to forgive him.

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Dracut, MA, US | 4 months, 1 week ago (9 hours, 51 minutes after post)

A 22 year old guy with a 15 year old girl? Is that even legal?

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