relationship help: My soon to be boyfriend’s brother has the stomach flu and - Help.com

awww that would be really sweet :] i would respect you. generosity is attractive

Yea that really isn’t a bad thing to want to help people, as the person above me said, that is attractive. ^^

yeah thank you! i just wasnt sure because the guy and me arent even dating yet and its a 30 min drive… besides i didnt want him to think that i was trying way too hard by being so nice but thats just how i am lol

There is nothing wrong with being yourself, and don’t ever be afraid to do something you would do. Anytime you have a problem , I will be glad to listen, and i’m certain that other people will feel the same way.

If he doesn’t like your want to help people then he has problems or something. I like a person who is willing to go the extra mile to help someone.

thank you so much :) i feel better now, before i felt like a stalkerish weirdo lol. and yes you are right if he doesnt like it then he does have problems and obviously is not the right person for me. i will let you know how it all goes down tomorrow :) thank you again

No problem, Happy to help, seriously I am actually happier by hearing that ^^.

Why would he need pain killers for a stomach flu?

you guys are never gonna believe what happened… so i got the brother apple juice and sauce, chicken soup and tylenol (googled it and it said that it didnt irritate the stomach) but when i got it i completely forgot the brother’s name; me being sstupid enough i decided to ask my guy for his brother’s name, he got all defensive about it and kept asking me why i wanted to know, at first i told him cuz i forgot (the truth) and then i told him that i bought some stuff for his flu and wanted to drop it off (this was over text since i was working at the time, and it was all day long). after that he stopped answering so instead of going to his house to drop it off i decided to go shopping (in the same area as his house) because i was seriously doubting myself and my act of kindness. i texted him again telling him that i was in the area and if it was ok if i stopped by, he said yes so i did. once i got there he was with his friend fixing his car, and of course i wasnt expecting him to give me all of the attention but to at least look at me once in a while you know? well it got to the point where he would walk infront of me without looking at me and talk about f* different girls and stuff. well i should have left, but how i saw it was that i could not leave until the problem was solved; well i got through about an hour more of the same when they told me they had plans and had to leave (he was kicking me out!). *sigh* his friend went inside and my guy told me that his brother was faking the whole sickness thing because he was too stoned and drunk and he didnt want people to know, i was shocked and he was like yeah i knew you liked him since the moment you saw him and he said that it had happened before. now that was an eye opener for me because i realized that that was his problm! but right when i was going to explain to him that i was only being kind his friend came out of the house and my guy started telling him how i was making googly eyes at his brotehr and that i had come to bring pain killers and stuff and of course his friend gave me a nasty look and my guy took my hand and led me to my car so i could leave. i was wordless, i had never been treated like that in my life so when we got to my car i tried talking about it but his friend wanted to leave becasue they had plans, so me after containing all of my emotions decided to ask the friend for 2 min well more like desperate pleading and my guy thought i was yelling at his best friend and got pissed. then after his friend decided to give us 1 min (counting) my guy just out me in my car gave me a peck and said we would talk about it later. yeah i guess thats what i get for trying to be kind. i dont know what to do, and i feel like i have been disrespected and made a fool out of. please help!!!!!