Love help: i love a girl, she loves me too, but saying no for marrige or wedding.. - Help.com

Don’t pressure anybody into wedlock.

How long have you dated her?

How old are each of you?

Do you live together?

Well then drop it. She’s not ready for marriage.

she just may be to young or she’s been married before and does not see the need for paper work.
give it some time and she’ll come around

How old are you two

Many people are not ready to get married until their mid to late twenties. What’s your rush? If you fee like you need to tie her down to you, maybe you’re just insecure. That’s a huge turn off for women.

Give it time. Grow your love together.

Maybe it’s because you can’t spell, so she didn’t understand “r mrry m3.”

There’s no rush to get married, especially at your age. You can’t make someone marry you. It has to be a mutual decision. And yes, if she rejected your proposal then chances are she’s not ready to marry. So the answer here is, drop it. :)

Good for her.

ecstasy199 wrote:
i m not sayin her to mary me now, i jst adkd her.. “will u like 2 mary me??” she said no
wen i askd her the reason..
she said she nevr gona mary any 1 coz her thinkin is diffrent

She’s 18. People change a lot in their 20s and change even more in their 30s.

She will change and so will you. If you are still compatible in 10 years, maybe you’ll get married.

LOL oh yeah… v r serous too. You’re only 18 dude, what’s the matter your visa expire soon?

Well if it’s just that she thinks marriage isn’t for her, then what’s the problem? It’s just a bit of paper from the government, and you really don’t need it to prove that you love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them

troll?

The problem with it is it is unecessary, unless you want more benefits than a regular couple who are unmarried. Marriage, to me, is an outdated and senseless tradition that has no place in a modern society. But that’s just my opinion. And if you’re girlfriend’s opinion is the same, you should respect that and just give it a rest.

My dad asked my mam alot of times to marry him before she actually said yes..they’ve been together for over 30 years now and we’re going out for a long time before that too - have to say they are very happy together, my mam just wasn’t ready!
What’s the rush, take your time..its worth the wait. :)
You have to get to know eachother, every aspect of eachother first.
Don’t force her to marry you

Lol.

Right..

Nothing.Only wait and someday she will married you or be happy and never get married

U know dat she loves u. B happy about dat. She isnt ready and/or she believes dat marriage isnt necessary. Let her make her decision. She probably wont like u pushing her toward marriage.