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I like this girl, but I think she doesn’t like me back.

Many times during school, she would poke me for no reason and giggle, or take my bagpack and/or my folders, agendas, etc. Her friends would always yell “Hi!,” to me across the street, but I always thought it was humiliation, though some people say that its because that girl likes me and their friends know it. She laughs often when we talk via IM, which is sometimes rather long.

I think that she still thinks I am only a friend, but I’m not sure. I’ve read many topics about making a girl like you, or when you know a girl likes you, but somehow the girl I like doesn’t show those traits, except for poke me for fun and/or laugh at random stuff I say.

So, what do you think? do you think she likes me, or does she think I am only her friend?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

Have you actually asked her or talked to her about liking each other?

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masrutte offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Just ask her!

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Proff. Vampress ;p offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

asking is the best thing. but make sure ur still friends if she says no, but from the sound of i’d say she does.

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ScarLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

The best way to find out is to ask, but if you don’t want to do that you can show her that you like her.

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

As you describe it i see positive signs of her liking you.
Just talk to her about it..

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

She is interested.

If you want to move that interest to a new level, you have to act like a man. Joke, don’t take yourself seriously, make plans, be confident, be busy. Ask her questions. Find out about her. Find out what she likes. Find out about events going on around you related to what she likes and ask if she wants to go.

Stop worrying about whether she “likes” you. She’s interested. Take action and find out more about her. Have fun.

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peterandjess offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

Just ask her

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

She may very well just be flirting with you because she likes attention. Most girls do.

You could continue asking a bunch of strangers who don’t have any idea, or you could hang out with her (alone) and see for yourself!

I just know that poking my guy friends and laughing at thier jokes doesn’t necessarily mean that shes into you.

Just be yourself dude - confidence is key.

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golddarksei offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 31 minutes after post)

But, she already likes someone, but that someone already has a girlfriend. She told me when we were playing a game of finding out who we liked. Of course, she failed to recognize it was me, even though I find out who she liked.

Unfortunately, I’m too shy to ask her directly. My cousin advised me to become more friendly with her, until the time comes when I can actually tell her. What do you guys say?

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 33 minutes after post)

golddarksei wrote:
But, she already likes someone, but that someone already has a girlfriend. She told me when we were playing a game of finding out who we liked. Of course, she failed to recognize it was me, even though I find out who she liked.

Unfortunately, I’m too shy to ask her directly. My cousin advised me to become more friendly with her, until the time comes when I can actually tell her. What do you guys say?

I think she just wants to be friends. I mean if she’s telling you about the other guys she likes, that’s not really pointing toward “I like you!!!”

You could go with the persistent route - but you’ll probably just end up hung up on this girl and waiting for her to notice for months.

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golddarksei offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 47 minutes after post)

usurper wrote:

golddarksei wrote:
But, she already likes someone, but that someone already has a girlfriend. She told me when we were playing a game of finding out who we liked. Of course, she failed to recognize it was me, even though I find out who she liked.

Unfortunately, I’m too shy to ask her directly. My cousin advised me to become more friendly with her, until the time comes when I can actually tell her. What do you guys say?

I think she just wants to be friends. I mean if she’s telling you about the other guys she likes, that’s not really pointing toward “I like you!!!”

You could go with the persistent route - but you’ll probably just end up hung up on this girl and waiting for her to notice for months.

I am already her friend. I’ve known her for close to 2 years, and liked her since. My liking towards has grown over the 2 years.

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 53 minutes after post)

Awww….I dont think she likes you dude. I’ve been in her shoes.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

i like this girl and she knows i like her and behind my back my ex is trying to convince herr that im not a bad guy and that she should try me on for size buy idk

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