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Hi!
i’ve been in relationship for two years now.Initially, things were perfect,but lately we are not able cope up with each other’s contrasting qualities.His controlling nature annoys me as i don’t want to be dominated in each and everything, which makes me feel trapped and also by his ‘stay-at-home’ attitude. Since I love independence and freedom, his possessiveness makes me go crazy at times. On the other hand, he despise my indecisiveness,vacillation and my laziness.When he loves me, loves me like crazy like no one has ever loved me but whn he is angry he forgets everything he can evn leave me, i feel like he needs anger management classes…All this while, ive been compromising but his controlling nature and his anger scares me and m scared its going to kill my soul and i feel like i wont be happy ..Whn i spoke abt splitting he dint like the feeling, he s trying to save this relationship but ultimately we still fight and i feel bad to leave him it hurts ..im 23, still inexperienced in terms of realtionships …so i need advice plss help im so stuck..
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