Is meeting up with exes for random fun doomed?

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Is meeting up with exes for random fun doomed?

Or is it just fun? I don’t want anyone to get hurt i just.. wanna have fun xD

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usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

Ha ha not doomed persay… but it usually ends up falling into the old routine. Unless you are BOTH 100% over each other.

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Abba Zabba 9 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

Fun as in, secksitime fun, or fun as in playing poker and drinking a few beers fun?

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Anonymous #
5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Pepsi wrote:
Fun as in, secksitime fun, or fun as in playing poker and drinking a few beers fun?

Both.. xD

usurper wrote:
Ha ha not doomed persay… but it usually ends up falling into the old routine. Unless you are BOTH 100% over each other.

I’m over him. I just decided to text him tonight cos even after we broke up we stayed friends…and i havent seen him since.. april.. so i decided to check up on him xD

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Pepsi wrote:
Fun as in, secksitime fun, or fun as in playing poker and drinking a few beers fun?

Both.. xD

usurper wrote:
Ha ha not doomed persay… but it usually ends up falling into the old routine. Unless you are BOTH 100% over each other.

I’m over him. I just decided to text him tonight cos even after we broke up we stayed friends…and i havent seen him since.. april.. so i decided to check up on him xD

But is HE over you? Like who broke up with who? If you guys sleep together, will he text you the next day saying how much fun he had and how he wants to do it again and BS like that? Is he like that?

That would drive me nutty…it does drive me nutty.

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Abba Zabba 9 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

One last question. Who dumped who?

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Anonymous #
5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I dumped him.. It’s been two years now!He’s over me.

littlenick 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Fun? Is in playing pictogram or charades?

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Abba Zabba 9 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

If you dumped him, that’s okay. But why an ex? Surely there are other single guys who have no history with you that you can have secks with…?

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usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Pepsi wrote:
If you dumped him, that’s okay. But why an ex? Surely there are other single guys who have no history with you that you can have secks with…?

Ex’s are just easier sometimes!

I dunno, why not try it?! Risks make life fun.

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Abba Zabba 9 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

usurper wrote:
Ex’s are just easier sometimes!

I dunno, why not try it?! Risks make life fun.

Just seems like sloppy seconds to me.

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usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Pepsi wrote:

usurper wrote:
Ex’s are just easier sometimes!

I dunno, why not try it?! Risks make life fun.

Just seems like sloppy seconds to me.

Hmmm…good point

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jaredingram 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

i have had experience with this before and it never really ended up well with me, the ex always tried to lure me back into a relationship

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Dr. Ralph 73 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

Sounds like random fun if neither of you have high expectations. He may think he’s getting a second chance though.

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