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My Girlfriend.
I’ve known this girl for nearly ten years. we grew up together, trying new things together, even trying a relationship with each other a couple of times. For all this time there has been a connection between us two and it will never be as simple as just being mates.
Half a year ago, she came out of a relationship that frankly hurt her pretty bad. A pathetic guy cheated on her and treated used her out of his pleasure. Her confidence was shattered and her trust in guys deterriated.
A month ago, she fought her emotions and we decided to try a new realtionship where we’re more grown up now and take what we have together more seriously, yet that is what i assumed.
When we’re together there is nothing on the planet that can pull us away. But when were apart, it feels like were back to our old friendship and the relationship doesnt even exist. She dislikes advertising we’re together, (literally removes any indication on social chat websites i.e. Facebook that we’re together) she texts me a lot less than many of my other girl mates do and she only seems to reassure me about her feelings for me when she can tell im losing interest.
Obviously we have both got older so we were bound to change a little, but she doesnt seem like the girl i used to know and this relationship feels more like a friendship with privelages; she only shows love when she wants some love herself. I love her to pieces and i wouldnt want anything more than to be with her. But i got to think about myself right?
Please help?
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