Love help: so i have this guy who wants to make out with me but it’s only so he can be better prepared for this other girl. - Help.com



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so i have this guy who wants to make out with me but it’s only so he can be better prepared for this other girl.

does this mean he likes me though? the thing is i know the other girl and she’s shy and probably would not do that with him. so what could this mean?

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pinkpanthergir offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Don’t make out with him, that’s very rude to ask a girl that. >:(

First of all, PRACTICING making out on another girl? He should use a stuffed toy instead. And if this other girl wouldn’t even kiss him, then why bother?

Then again, he might just be telling you this to get you to kiss him. Men ar so confusing…

I just wouldn’t do it, period.

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victoriadewar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

nooo i don’t it’s a lot more complicated than you think though. like something tells me he’s been wanting to do this with me. he always plays with my hair, smiles at me, and it’s like idk what to do. i think he secretly wants to do it because he wants to but is afraid to admit it

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

um if some guy asks you to make out with him so he can practice for another girl you should laugh, laugh long and hard for he is a douche bag

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pinkpanthergir offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Hmmm, he could be using you, but then he COULD actually just want to kiss you…

UGH, men. I would straight-up ask him the real reason. But that’s just my way, lol.

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victoriadewar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

thank you so much for your adviceee! it meanss so so much to meee!

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 50 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Let him know that you would only let a boy kiss you who wants to kiss you. Then he has to make his intentions clear. If he’s grown-up enough to be kissing girls, then let him man-up and not weasel his way into a kiss.

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Dr. Ralph's Beard offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 74 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

How do you feel about it? Do you want to make out with him? I had a girl tell me the same thing when I was young and we did what she wanted then she never went out with the guy she was supposed to be practicing for…

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victoriadewar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

you know thats actually a really good point. the thing is he is a guy who i have known my entire life. the other girl is my best friend and i’ve known her forever. sooo basically he knows us equally. and honestly i wouldn’t mind doing it, but it just seems weird to me at the same time since i’m his best friend and all. but recently he flirts a lot more so the signs seem to be that he is starting to like me too

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Dr. Ralph's Beard offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 74 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

I think he’s a teenage boy and he wants every girl in the world… line ‘em up right now and do ‘em all!

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victoriadewar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

hmmmm thats possibleee

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sum offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Every girl is different, he will learn nothing from making out with you. Just tell him that and ask him if he was just being a wuss and not admitting he likes you or is just an idiot trying to get with lots of girls. Do whatever you want though, not what he wants.

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victoriadewar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (9 hours, 21 minutes after post)

thank you so so much everyone for your advice it honestly means a lot to me :]

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