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Ok, here is the situation, i am dating a girl that

i have previously dated, we dated right after i graduated high school and it ended during my first semester of college while she was a senior in high school. time passed and she went to college at the same private school as my best friend, it is a small college of about 1300 kids total, we got back together this past march, after about a year and a half, it has been great, i mean i really love this girl. i didn’t date anyone during our time apart, while she has admitted to dating and sleeping with one guy at college, that really doesn’t bother me because the way i look at it is that the past is in the past and we are now together and that’s it, but my best friend has now come to me ans said that she was a “pike bike”, meaning she slept with a lot of people from one fraternity, all through her freshman year. i know that it shouldn’t bother me but i cant help it, and its not even that she might have it is that she might be lying to me about it, because she openly told me about the one guy. i don’t know what to do, it concerns my that she might be lying to me about it, but i don’t know if i should ask seeing as how i told her what was in the past was in the past…what should i do?

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Be honest and tell her that it’s still bothering you. Talk about it, try to work it out with her. Shouldn’t she be willing to regain your trust? You shouldn’t be afraid to be honest. Hope this helps.

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Ok, here is the situation, i am dating a girl that i have previously dated, we dated right after i graduated high school and it ended during my first semester of college while she was a senior in high school. time passed and she went to college at the same private school as my best friend, it is a small college of about 1300 kids total, we got back together this past march, after about a year and a half, it has been great, i mean i really love this girl. i didn’t date anyone during our time apart, while she has admitted to dating and sleeping with one guy at college, that really doesn’t bother me because the way i look at it is that the past is in the past and we are now together and that’s it, but my best friend has now come to me ans said that she was a “pike bike”, meaning she slept with alot of people from one fraternity, all through her freshman year. i know that it shouldn’t bother me but i cant help it, and its not even that she might have it is that she might be lying to me about it, because she openly told me about the one guy. i dont know what to do, it concerns my that she might be lying to me about it, but i don’t know if i should ask seeing as how i told her what was in the past was in the past…what should i do?

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