Need help with an issue about my girlfriend.

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Need help with an issue about my girlfriend.

Okay a few months ago we had a fight and things almost fell apart, but tehy didnt we made up that night yet she was cheatin on me with another guy for 3 nights before she told me. Okay this guy was a friend of mine even and he did this. Well she knows im upset when she talks to him. Well she got rid of that messenger she used to talk to him online. Well today I found it reinstalled on her computer. He is the only one she talked to on that messenger. What bothers me most is she reinstalled it and talked to him while she was in the restroom. Cuz she took the laptop in there and it was the only time today we werent together. I am hurting alot right now and I don’t know what to say. She wasn’t honest with me the first time about it. I know she will admit to talkin to him, but I don;t know if i can trust her for just talkin as “friends” cuz she had to do it in the restroom. Anyone have any suggestions on how to bring this subject up to her without her gettin mad at me. Also on how to get the truth. Any advice welcome Plz help.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I would normally say to try to work things out and give her a chance, but I don’t really think she deserves that much. Also, your friend sounds like not much of a friend.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Be honest with her, stay calm and be willing to listen. It doesn’t sound like she’s being very good to you. Ask for the truth, if she won’t just give it. Don’t be afraid of her getting mad, and don’t be afraid to end the relationship if it comes to that. I hope this helps some. I agree with Ni.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Drop her like a hot cake… or just say, (while near her computer) “didn’t you uninstall messenger on this?”.. simple as that.. if she says yes, ask why it’s back on, then when she answers ask her why she’s continuing to betray you trust..

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Give it a chance as long as you think it’s worth it.

Never be afraid of her getting mad at you when she is obviously in the wrong.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

Ditch the B and stop wasting your time worrying about being betrayed! Find a new girl or find yourself again and enjoy life….do it NOW!

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