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I dont know how to reply to compliments

It is summer now and of course I will wear more revealing outfits… I personly think that I look better naked than with clothes on hence I look better in summer.
Loads of girls started telling me how pretty I am and how perfect my figure is and commenting on my amazing sence of fashion but because we never really talk and I don’t know them tht much I have no clue how to reply to the compliments (usually I dont like what they r wearing so saying something nice back would be a lie and it would sound wierd if I say tht all the time…)
I don’t know how to act when somebody says a compliment to me…. I’m really shy but I do think I can look quite gd…..
please help!

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webtwistdeisgne offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

If you don’t know what to reply, don’t reply
just smile and nod (worked wonders for me)

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

How about simple “thank you?”

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Anonymous #
5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

webtwistdeisgne wrote:
If you don’t know what to reply, don’t reply
just smile and nod (worked wonders for me)

but then they might think I’m quite ego…..

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Anonymous #
5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
How about simple “thank you?”

but if u say it in certain ways it either sounds tht u r arrogant, don’t care or affended or unhappy….

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Thank you with a smile!

I’ll show you. Tell me I look very hot for little chihuahua in a cute outfit and I make you melt. Go ahead.

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Joy. offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I just smile and look them in the eye and say thank you.

It means so much more when you look them in the eye when saying thank you.

If they compliment on your clothes maybe tell them where you bought it from.

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grbghp offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

wow! littlenick!
you look very handsome today! what a brilliant outfit! have you been working out?

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Thank very much. I feel great! And yes, I have been working out! :).

See how I did that?

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lucy_h offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

Haha I know what you mean, I get like that sometimes too, like when someone’s like, you’re so stunning it’s like…hm.
It’s probably best if you just say thank you and give them a smile.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 73 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

My personal opinion is that you change your approach altogether… from now on whenever someone compliments you, you should reply with “I look better naked than with clothes on” and rip your shirt open!!!

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5 months ago (2 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Joy. wrote:
I just smile and look them in the eye and say thank you.

It means so much more when you look them in the eye when saying thank you.

If they compliment on your clothes maybe tell them where you bought it from.

yeah I should try tht cause i’m shy i usually look away in shyness when people compliment me…. but then if u smile wouldnt tht be jst like saying ‘yeah I know’?
but i would rather not say where i got my clothes cause then people will definitely either start hanging around with me only for one reason or they would think i’m really arrogant and would spread rumors about me….

littlenick wrote:
Thank very much. I feel great! And yes, I have been working out! :).

See how I did that?

yeah thts a gd point acctually… yeah i got it I should say stuff like yeah i really like tht top too or i m feeling great but what about when they comment on my legs (ok i’ll go nto the details since i’m writing this as an anon) like today i was wearing really short shorts and they told me how stunning my legs are and my figure but my legs had some hair on them but not much and i really never work out or eat anything healthy…

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (2 hours, 44 minutes after post)

:)

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5 months ago (2 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Dr. Ralph wrote:
My personal opinion is that you change your approach altogether… from now on whenever someone compliments you, you should reply with “I look better naked than with clothes on” and rip your shirt open!!!

i dont want to be known as a s!ut thank u very much…..

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grbghp offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (2 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
but then if u smile wouldnt tht be jst like saying ‘yeah I know’?

and whats wrong about that?
know your qualities, be proud of them, don’t brag though.
if your playing modest when being complimented it can be interpreted as arrogance, especially if you do that often. (sounds weird, i know, but its true)

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cereza_p offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

i think you are insane.. look for a psychiatrist!

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 73 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 month, 4 weeks after post)

I still think you should stick with the “I look better naked” line…

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