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I’m a 17 year old girl.

I met a girl in january who is now my friend, well I was talking with her before on msn and all of a sudden she got mad at me, I don’t know how and why because I said nothing that would trigger her anger. We were talking about clothing and I was helping her pick a better T-shirt and I came online because she sent me a text message saying that she needed my help and I was really not in the mood to get up from bed but I did anyways to be a good friend and so we talk about clothing like I mentioned earlier and she was asking me about t-shirts and stuff then she asked me if I liked these shoes,(hot topic heels, purple on the outside with a pink bow and a cartoon character on the front and skeletons inside the shoe, she’s scene I was but I’m normal now slash prep, I dont like stereo-typing but i do it for you to understand better) … and I said I don’t know how to answer that because I dress to impress my boyfriend (been together for almost 2 years). Then she said; “he doesn’t like you when you dress normally? :0″ And I said: “he loves me no matter how I look, but I meant that I still care how I dress and still want to look my best for him just because I can :)”. And she snapped! She just started saying that I was always talking about my boyfriend to her and saying how grate he is and he’s the only one in the world and better than everybody, better boyfriend than than she could ever have and stuff.
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None of this is true, I talk about him but only casually and every girl says something sweet about their boyfriend, that’s just normal. I never even said that he’s the only in the world, I said he was the only one for ME right NOW and hopefully forever, why would she snap at me like that, my hands started shaking I was so shocked! She’s the one that is always talking about guys.

Why is she so dumb and doesn’t get me? I was going to tell her how I felt but she is so moody that she would somehow twist my saying and turn it into other words. In the end of that conversation she said to me: “WHAT do you expect! I already told you what’s wrong with me!” I said; Yeah I’m sorry i forgot”. And she started blaming everything she said on her depression. I just want to say that I know her and that was not depression, that was anger and NOT triggered by depression, I know how she feels because I was once depressed somehow she doesn’t care for me at all and seems like the only one that cares about everything.

I’m a very calm person, I said sorry, I tell her I love her all the time. I know in my heart that I didn’t do anything wrong.

Can someone tell me why she doesn’t get me?

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