I’m so lonely.
I seem to have a problem, which is really what I’d like help with, in that, all my friends seem to just hang around until they get boyfriends or girlfriends, respectively. I’m not desperate to get a girlfriend (I’m a lesbian, and pretty at peace with that), but it seems to be the only way I can have people stick around is to date them, thus insuring they won’t leave for a significant other (which they might regardless); that’s not enough of a reason for me to date, I’m sorry. Am I just someone who isn’t worthy of friendship? I am a very loyal, dedicated friend who understands the balance between sensitivity and casualness. What’s wrong with me?
Even my sister (who I was very close with, and who happens to be a lesbian as well) has gotten a girlfriend and up-and-ditched me. I swore that was the answer. I’m not close to anyone anymore. I’ve given up on trying to get close on a personal level with anyone.
I know there might not be much to say about any of this, but might there be something I’m missing? I try, I’m just too tired to try and cultivate healthy relationships anymore until I figure out what my defect is.
Thanks for any advice,
Help, I’m alive
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