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have you talked to anyone about it talking does help did something big happen or something out of the ordanary?

I guess. I’m not sure. It’s more like lots of little things.. Well, middle sized things

Don’t let things get to you hun. You are too good to be push down by events in your life you can not control. but did anythin gin particular happen?

What do you need help with? Would you just like to talk?

what are all the things that have made you feel bad? lots of small things, but what are they?

I don’t know. I’m sorry :(
I’ve just been so confused lately. There have been some very good things which I am extremely grateful for but there have been so many other things which have been so awful that it feels like over all my life is really bad. I guess the biggest thing is that my best friend and I had a fight. Actually. She threw a shoe at my face.

why were yous fighting?

jetmoo wrote:
what are all the things that have made you feel bad? lots of small things, but what are they?

Well mostly family stuff. But also my friends, they’ve been slagging me off over everything lately, like, I’m used to it in the usual friend way that everyone has but it’s been different lately. Too far. And I have a lot of stress with work and I’m going to stay over camp for three weeks next sunday and I’m really nervous, although it’s my third time..

jetmoo wrote:
why were yous fighting?

The incident with the shoe?
it was so stupid. my other friend was tying her shoe with a triple knot. We were all messing around. She took off her shoe to try to un-knot it and when she did the same other friend took off her sock and gave it to me. I threw it on the ground.

those who slag you off arent friends. dont talk to them anymore, find some real friends. if you think you might have done something wrong then you could ask and try to resolve the problem. but if you have done nothing wrong, then dont let them make you feel guilty. I have family problems aswell, i’m not always sure how to treat those problems though. It really depends on what bothers you at home

if you dont want to go to camp, why don’t you just not go?

They’ve been my friends for years. It’s what we do when we hang out. We have normal conversations only we occasionally poke fun at eachother. This was different.

I can’t not go to camp. It’s already paid for. People are expecting me to go. And I do sort of want to go, I’m just really nervous..

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jetmoo wrote:
why were yous fighting?

The incident with the shoe?
it was so stupid. my other friend was tying her shoe with a triple knot. We were all messing around. She took off her shoe to try to un-knot it and when she did the same other friend took off her sock and gave it to me. I threw it on the ground.

so because you threw someone sock on the ground, one of your “friends” throw a shoe at your face? why? was she angry cos you throw a sock on the floor? Can’t quite understand that?

Well it was the ground outside. But that’s exactly it. I was so shocked. This is so unlike her that if it had have been anyone else’s face I would not believe it at all. She is the absolute last person you would expect this from..

were yous just joking on with each other then? or are you not sure whether they were joking with you, or whether they ment to be nasty?

well that “friend” of yours doesnt sound like a good friend to me. how did your other friends react?

They were gobsmacked for a couple seconds then they just sort of acted like nothing had happened.

have you talked to them about it? sometimes when there is a group of friends,there’s like a leader person in the middle of it all. is it like that with yous? is she like the main person in the middle of the group?

not really.. we don’t really have one because the person with the personality most like that is the youngest so we’re all pretty laid back..

hmm i dont know whats up with that. have you asked her why she was nasty to you? if you find out why, then maybe you could fix the problem. but if it her fault then I just wouldnt hang about with her. and I’d find other people to hang about with.

my mind’s not working properly now cos its extra late, i’ll come back to this post another time. maybe tomorro ok

okay, thanks for the advice x

your welcome :)