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I miss my ex so much…

God only knows why she truly left, she seems to be confused and insecure. Its been a year now and I still miss her. I hate the fact that she has been with others its a little disgusting. I have a feeling she may come back soon, but she hurt me a lot and just messed everything up. We were perfect arghh… I have talked to several people after her; everyone from super models, singers, to the girl next door, but they just didn’t do it for me. I want her back and would take her back however, the pain she caused me and the fact she slept with others most likely unprotected too worries me if I can ever truly accept her back…. I feel like blah…

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laffycaffy offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (19 hours, 48 minutes after post)

It doens’t sound like she is a good catch to me. If you are unsure abotu taking her back then there is your answer right there. I think it is time to move on. It has been a year and obviously moving on isn’t easy. But everyone has to do it at some point or another. You deserve to be happy. If taking her back won’t make you happy then you need to fine something that will.

“No matter how bad things are at any one moment, no moment lasts. good or bad, time moves on because it has to. And so do you.”

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5 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

I try to move on and believe me I can get some pretty amazing girls however, its never right. All I think about is her, but she messed everything up :/ argh… life sucks, why are girls soooo…. argh… like really everyone I have ever been with is super attractive, they seem to be “perfect”, then bam it all goes down hill, what’s up with girls these days?

Why did we ever even happen? She came in my life f’ed it up then left, now she haunts me everyday.

FML

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (3 days, 15 hours after post)

Maybe your so called “perfect” type thats gorgeous and everything is the wrong type for you. Maybe you need someone who isn’t so perfect. someone that need your help a little.. Just a thought.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (3 days, 15 hours after post)

p.s. everyhting happens for a reason and maybe someday you figure out what that reason is.

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