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I NEED YOUR HELP PLZ GIVE SOME ADVICES
I’m going to tell you what have been happened to me for about 3yrs.
I’ve been living with my boy friend for about 3yrs and during all that time I’ve been working hard to not lose my boy friend, like letting him go out with he’s friends anytime that he wants to.
I’ve been letting him text he’s girls friend which killing me inside.
I’ve been doing everything that you think it’s possible to do for a boy friend to save our relationship and trying to make him see that girl like me he never is going to find.
He’s a good man he loves help people and with me like he takes care of me, he helps me when he can, and I know if he would do more he will do it.
So he has a perfect girl with him, like a girl who let her boy friend do whatever he wants just because she doesn’t wanted to lose him by her side.
I all kind of men would love to have a girl like me because they go do whatever they want and when they come back home they have their perfect girl witting for them with food made everything clean.
It might be so perfect fro him to have me like that.
He knows that I let him go out with he’s guys friend once a while but not every single weekend.
And also he knows that I let him go out just with he’s guys friend not with a girls but he does that too.
I know I’m a stupid to been supporting all he has done and all he still doing to me.
But I fell in love with him he’s treating me so kind so nice so friendly and also he’s a good looking too, which make him think that he’s that handsome guy in the world.
So because of the way he treats and talk to a people all kind of woman would fall for him exactly like I did.
But I know that this kind of relationship that I’ve been living is killing me lil by lil and it’s unhealthy for me too, which is not good at all for my life.
Also I know that I have to do something about but I don’t know what to do I love him, I just have him where I’m living and I’m scare to move on with out him by my side it seems like I can’t go anywhere I can’t do anything with out him it’s horrible to feel like that.
I really don’t know what to think about my life anymore I’ve been doing nothing for me or my family just for him and it seems like he doesn’t see that.
Dear I don’t understand why he does that to me because he said I’m perfect, and there is not other girl like me.
He said that he won’t lose me by he’s side because he’s going to take care of me always.
But why why he does that if he knows that it hurts me a lot.
He knows that it hurts me to see him getting ready to go out with he’s friend with out never asking me to go with him never.
He knows that worse thing that he does that hurts me so bad is when he go out with another girl, and he does that.
He felt so bad after he doing that because he knows that I don’t deserve this then he tell me that he’s a stupid and won’t do that anymore.
So it takes a week or more and then he start all over again.
I’m not a most beautiful girl in the world but I’m not ugly either, so why I just have eyes for my boyfriend and not for other guys that I know they are interested in me.
I don’t know what to do dear PLZ help me give some advices that might help me to move on.
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