Anonymous
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4 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)
Why did u dump him the first time.
Yes he still likes u.
Dont break his heart again.
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Anonymous
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4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)
fjdsakfjdl wrote:
Anonymous is win.
thanks. Im a girl but, often us girls forget… boys have feelings too.
The reason i dumped him was because he went mad one night when he was drunk and started screaming at me that he hated me and that i was in love with my cousin and i was obsessed with her (firstly i’m a gay man, second we know each other since we were born so that was a bit crazy) I loved him so much and we had a really plesant relationship, no cheating, no fighting, we rarely even drank (maybe it was the drink that drove him mad lol). So a day or two after that I couldnt get it outta my head that he hated me.So i dumped him, he didnt seem to be too bothered and i asked him a while later if he wantd to try again and he said no he wants to stay single forever. So do you think i have a chance and how should i behave when we meet up, i texted him today and made an excuse that i couldnt make it this week but would next we be ok ( dont want to look desperate-good idea or not???) he text back and said no problem
i think, act nice and friendly when u see him. if he really likes u and might want to get together, he’ll do something to let u know.
but to tell the truth, i never met a straight guy who’d say he’s gay. so i don’t think you two getting together is likely unless he lied.
Never play mind games! If u r dying to talk to him… call him…
If u have better things to do dont..
Black n white my friend… grey areas r trouble!
One thing is for certain.. he has very strong feelings 4 u..
@ ruidosa, he is gay and i’m gay hence we were in a relationship.
I dunno we had a brief fone call today about something completely irrelevent and just as he was saying thaks for calling i kinda misunderstood and was very blunt and said k c ya, but i wasnt rude. I’ve been reading alot of advice on what to do when you break up and i have follow through very well, i’ve lost 17 lbs through diet and excersise and i’m starting to get very toned which has boosted my confidence a good bit so hopefully he’ll notice that i’ve been looking after myself and maybe he’ll make contact after our date/catch up, if he doesmt make contact first should i just leave it.
No.. he probably needs u too, as u were the one that dumped him… like u he is tiptoeing around the situation not wanting to b needy either
Well i hope so, really nervous and i’m trying not to get my hopes up
pkav wrote:
@ ruidosa, he is gay and i’m gay hence we were in a relationship.
sorry, i didn’t get it at once :S
just see what happens when you meet. and do talk. and explain yourself and find out how he feels and what he thinks. communication is what holds people together. good luck. it will be great if you get back together! :)
Had a nice chat with him today,i wants me to call him next week to organise meeting up. I spoke about stuff i know interests him and he was much more chatty than in recent months. i’ll keep u posted
ow, kool. wish u all the best! :)
so the plan now is to try meet him maybe wednesday. i wont contact him till tuesday evening or should i give him more notice?
third day is said to be the best option. Not to desperate and not too far away to let him feel forgotten :) Have fun! :)
k so i text him today this is what i said, Is wednesday alright for me to call up because i’m free all day.He replied, I’ll let you know, in case i’m out again lol, i’m sick of been at home. I said cool talk to you during week so. Any views on this
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Yip hes playing mind games now…..
Empliying he may be out.. knowing what u will assume.
Im starting to understand why u guys ad previous trouble in your relationship lol…
Both not doing or saying how u really feel.
He may need u to be the direct one. Find out whats on during the night/ day on wednesday, invite him to an event. Not just meeting up at his place.
K well i kinda want to see his mam and dad, there not well and we had a great relationship so want to see them. I’ll try find somewhere for us to go and do. Think he is a bit bored at home, btw he’s not lazy he’s recovering from a brain tumor. Well i never played mind games with him before but i feel it nessecary at the moment, i think if he thinks i want him back that it’ll push him away. I’d like him to figure out for himself if he wants me back, if he doesnt thats ok too and i’ll respect that but i need him to start thinking about me first. Hes extremly stuborn.
Well that explains heaps hun.
I have been very ill myself and when u r like that and for some time afterward u feel unatractive.
I think he wants u back. I think he’s scared of rejection.. again. lol
Well he cancelled yesterday for to meet today so i take it he’s not really that interested. I’m not going to contact him again. The ball is in his court. I told him give me a text some time he’s free. If he doesnt its his loss.
i’m sorry to hear it. nevermind, there will be another better one for you. :)
Just keep in mind he may not b mentally strong enough for a relationship yet.
I hope u find happiness with someone wheter it is him or not.
Axo
Long time no see all. Ran into him last night in club had a great chat, he was meeting some guy so i went about with my friends. His friend told me he’s just enjoying been single, dont know why she said it to me because i never mentioned getting back together to her, she just presumed. Now he thinks i was asking her to ask him. We were texting today already and he said i dint say anything stupid cause i asked. (was drunk) I told him i’d text him later cause i’m busy, should i leave it for a few days
Na be straight up, txt once only and as soon as u like. Mind games are not a good idea.
Do u want to get back with him?
Not sure anymore, i do like him alot. We get on brilliant, he has his ups and downs but that to me is acceptable because of the cancer. Maybe if i move on i’ll look back and say good riddens but i cant see that happening. His family have always wanted us to get back together, he told me that himself. I just dont know anymore lol.
do u or he have cancer? Is it in remission?
Met him again last friday, his best mate was there she wreckons i should fight to get him back. Cancer is in remission and he had it. I dunno i’m beginning to think its a lost cause
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