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i had a boyfriend who I loved very very much.

It was really hard though becaus I’m not jewish and his family disapproved. I got really stressed by this and he kept saying how he should be abl to go date a jewish girl or two to satisfy his parents. I had a bad feeling, but i said ok and then he instead went a hooked up with two christian girls… I miss him, and its killing me. I never shouldd have said yes, or was he going to do it eventually anyway. we were tgether for four years and I miss him so badly. i dont know what to do…

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Sugar Girl offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

One thing first, PARENTS DON’T RULE YOUR LIVES! It’s your life. And he has his own life too. It’s not his parent’s life.
I think you should talk to him about it, or see someone in your school that could help. Good Luck :)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

I agree.. I don’t think he should do something to satisfy his parents and not himself. The way it seems though, is that he didn’t want to date a girl of his religion. He wanted to have some fun. The best thing I can tell you to do is keep your mind and yourself busy. Breakups are extremely hard. I really hope you can figure everything out. Good Luck!

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