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How do I hit on asian men?

They always walk around in groups, or seem really busy to go somewhere or get somewhere!!
I can’t just approach a stranger who’s busy or hanging out with friends, and be all “HI!!!” D<
That’s stupid, weird and totally freaky.
I really need to know what to do to get some attention from them, but I just don’t know how!?
Please tell me, best would be if an asian himself would give me some advice.
I’m talking about the chineze, japanese, koreans kind of asians…
Like, I just need to meet!! The problem is meeting!
I’m hot enough to win any guy’s heart, duh!

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Why would you want just any Asian man?

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Because I’m attracted to them.
I’m just too picky since I don’t really like manliness.
And since most European guys are really manly and stuff, and more reasons which some might not agree with me so i won’t mention it. (I hate internet drama and discussion)
So yeh, with Europeans I’m really picky.
And Asians are just beautiful, they have pretty eyes and hair, oh god I love black hair.
Did i mention i’m very interested in their culture?
I’m just really attracted to them so there’s your answer.

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Try to find a good one.

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4 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

You could try a 9mm with a silencer :) (Joking)

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Get a job in a sushi or other asian restaurant and try it from there.

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

The problem is the FINDING DX
I don’t know how to meet any!!

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

But that’s the thing! In sushibars and asian restaurants only asians work!
That’s so intimidating, I’m scared because they might reject me cuz I’m not asian.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Maybe try an internet dating site.

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

but yes, working some place is a good way..
Is it the only way?
There’s gotta be another way!!

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

NO!!!! Internet dating is OFF LIMITS!
Done it ones and NEVER again.
Only freaky pedophiles out there!

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

helooooo! what’s taking people so long to reply!?

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

bump

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours after post)

BUMPETH

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Try visiting a university campus.

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 6 minutes after post)

lolz, our campuses aren’t as big as America.. But I am going to look for a college! But that won’t be until a few months..

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

just be sincere and honest about your picture when you join a href=”http://www.cebuanas.com/”>asian dating /a> sites so that when you caught up with your possible mate, he will be true to you.

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

I don’t like dating sites ;_; thanks though

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wewe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

Hello Kono,

You might wanna try approaching some of the asian cultural centres in town and ask for an events calendar. East asian cultures you are interested in celebrate Mid-Autuum festivities (between Sept-Oct) and Lunar (aka Chinese) New Year (between Jan-Feb). Make the effor to attend some of their celebrations. At a celebration or event, pick a guy you are interested in, pretend you are a tourist, a student doing an assignment (or anything else you feel like), and enquire about the significance of the date. After that, it’s all about small talk and end exchanging phone numbers. Hope this helps!

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mikedu198 offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

im asian,well,i can only speak for myself though,still,i think asian guys are 2 shy .there are some good sites to make friends with Asian people (both cute Asian girls and guys) such as http://www.asiancaucasianturf.com/ and good luck,people are very nice on this site,i love it.See u there maybe ;)

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

Thanks a lot wewe and mikedu!! Your ideas are the best!!! :D Thank you ^^

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

well,actually…the site http://www.whiteonrice.org/ is better,mikedu198,i met my love there(we were even in the same city ,so it was faith ;) ).She is local Canadian.

konohamarutar, dont worry, I am not if u can find the one u have feeling for but i am sure you can always find someone nice enough for being your friend and listening to u

mikedu198 wrote:
im asian,well,i can only speak for myself though,still,i think asian guys are 2 shy .there are some good sites to make friends with Asian people (both cute Asian girls and guys) such as http://www.asiancaucasianturf.com/ and good luck,people are very nice on this site,i love it.See u there maybe ;)

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konohamarutar offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

I checked white on rice, but personally I don’t like dating sites.
Anyway, I’m particularly looking for someone asian in my country, Holland.
I’ve been in a long distance relationship with a japanese pedophile for a year and I never even got the chance to actually meet him. (thank god)

So yes, online is really a big no no, something I would only perhaps consider if some of them live in my country.

I’m also very picky so I don’t want men older then 23 since I’m 18.
I’m also very picky on appearance, they have to be as beautiful as the models in the magazines.

Thanks for the site though, I just didn’t find anyone interesting.

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