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Today it doesn’t matter. Boys call girls and girls call boys. We live in a unisex world.

Don’t call
and don’t wait

Be busy and have fun. It keeps you interesting.

I’ve never understood why so many girls get caught up in these games. It’s not the 1950’s, you don’t have gender roles you have to conform to. If you want to talk to him, call him. I he calls you and you realize you want to talk to him, answer the phone. If you have no immediate desire to talk to him, don’t call him. If you don’t want to speak to him, don’t answer his calls.

Like most things in the world, it’s not complicated unless you make it that way.

eh. Call him.

[quote linuxya]Don’t call
and don’t wait
[quote]

I’ve had a fair number of female friends in my life, and I’ve seen how many of them deal with men. This tactic, where you play a little too busy and just a little uninterested so that they have to chase you - it works. It works on like 80% of the men out there. Unfortunately, it is the bottom 80%. The most worthwhile guys out there will have choices when it comes to women, because other women will recognize that they are the most worthwhile. While the average guy is chasing you when you play hard to get, the best men have already met another woman who is (1) interacting with the men and displaying their personality, so the men have more of a reason to chase them, and (2) showing some interest and doing some chasing of their own, so that a relationship progresses.

I know this is just rambling at this point, but I think it is important because it seems like most women don’t know it. Play the average girl tactics and you will have great success at getting an average man. Be a strong, bold woman and you can get much better men.

Khalivarsha² wrote:
[This tactic, where you play a little too busy and just a little uninterested so that they have to chase you

You mistake my meaning. Never play games. Never wait. Be busy and interesting because it makes you a more interesting person…. because you are focused on having a life.

There’s nothing worse than girls who call you up and chat your ear off for hours then never want to do anything.

linuxya wrote:

Khalivarsha² wrote:
[This tactic, where you play a little too busy and just a little uninterested so that they have to chase you

You mistake my meaning. Never play games. Never wait. Be busy and interesting because it makes you a more interesting person…. because you are focused on having a life.

There’s nothing worse than girls who call you up and chat your ear off for hours then never want to do anything.

Ah, my mistake. Also, very true.

hey friends…. i think you should just live your life normally
Don’t wait him and DO’nt call him also
this step should be taken by him
Just Forget all about it and he will call you soon if there exist some emotions toward you

REGARDS
amafhh

amafhh_1 wrote:
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Don’t wait him and DO’nt call him also
this step should be taken by him
Just Forget all about it and he will call you soon if there exist some emotions toward you

How do you know he’s not thinking the same thing about the girl?
People talk like it’s such a bad thing for the girl to take some initiative, but when have you ever heard of a girl who called a guy and decided that her phonecall was a mistake because she was too forward?
I’m not saying plague him with phonecalls when he’s showing no interest; I’m saying that if you have something to say to him, then don’t overthink it, just act. These days, phonecalls are not a big deal.

you are right in some of your talk
But the problem is that a persom when loves someone,he cant see anything other than this love
He may also see things which are false in real life

ReGARDS
amafhh

I feel bad coz this really cute guy I have been with a few times just stopped contacting me suddenly….He has quite a lot of girls after but he seemed to be having a good time with me……

I guess when someone stops calling it’s because they’ve found someone better, its hard to admit but….

rom-roc wrote:
I feel bad coz this really cute guy I have been with a few times just stopped contacting me suddenly….He has quite a lot of girls after but he seemed to be having a good time with me……

I guess when someone stops calling it’s because they’ve found someone better, its hard to admit but….

No, it doesn’t mean he found someone better. There isn’t anyone better than you are. It just means he found someone he found more compatible with him at this stage in his life.