Help help: Hi I need help it seemss my mom dosen’t love me anymore - Help.com

As a mom things with kids can getfrustrating maybe she feels like what your brother does is her fault, and she is probaly scared you;ll do the same thing just keep reassuring her your not him write her a leter telling her ow you feel, maybe contact agrief couslers look in the phone book under counslers alot of them will take little or no payment, conyact a man from yor minersty at church with a youth group. It will help alot. Keep praying God gives her strength and guidenace as well as for yourself. And once and awhile just reach out and hug her even if its hard for you it means alot to moms. take care GOD BLESS

I understand how you feel. I used to be in the same boat but I was the “bad” kid. i’m pretty sure your brother feels the same. Me and my mom now are close as ever. But your mom is having a tough time. She proably is really stressed. are you a family that talks about stuff? if you are or even if your not, start. Ask her how her day was, help around the house. do dishes, offer to do some laundry, take out trash ask her if she needs help with any chores or yard work. Ask if you guys are having money problems. If you are ask her if there is anything you can do like shop at diffrent stores(ross, burlington)help cut cupons, walmart price matches everything(make sure to bring the competitors paper ad the ones you get in the mail every week) buy offbrand, start a “piggy” bank with of all the change. Like whenever u go to the store and have coins left put them in there. it adds up quickly. just tell her you love her and you miss you and her having good times. start family night movie night or game night. you need to talk about this too. You say your grandparents are mean well call the one who is less mean and talk to them. Tell them your mom is not the same and your sad and you miss her. ask them how you could help. I’m pretty sure they hear one side of the story only. her fusterated.(mother) You will proably find help there also. But if none of this works no one will listen go to your guidance conselor at school. That is part of their job description. keep your head up, also keep up your grades. my grandfather used to tell me “keep the faith” he said thats how families made it through the great depression they held on to hope. I hope for you everything will work its way out. so keep the faith.

Ohh…sorry to hear that. I went through a VERY similar thing with my mother. She was my very best friend growing up then when I turned 13 she started hating me…it ended up getting worse and she did kick me out of the house to live with my dad, which was the biggest shock ever.

Bottom line is keep your head up!!! Know this YOU are beautiful and wonderful as I can tell by what you wrote. No matter what happens DO NOT LET HER WORDS HURT YOU. (i know its much easier said than done) but she is taking out her stress on you and that is not fair of her. IF things get worse which they may always remember to RESPECT yourself, be kind to yourself, now is the time more than ever to know your self and NEVER allow those hurtful words to harm you deeply. YOU are so so smart for reaching out, so healthy of you.

KEEP THAT HEAD UP HIGH ESPECIALLY DURING THE HAREST OF TIMES!!!