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I think my wife is angry with me…
how can I make it right? When I met my wife about 6yrs ago I told her I was divorced,when I was not. My divorce became final for real 5yrs ago. At this same time period I had some legal issues I did not tell her about right away-because I wanted her to be emotionally attached to me b-4 she found out.
Current wife waited, but the Day I was free and clear from legal issues I had to go to anouther state to take care of ex wife and our then 10 yr old child (who is now 14) because ex had auto accident. My current spouse moved to be w/me 6months later-and I activly hid her from ex and child for 2yrs we lived there, because they were/are totaly intollerent of me having any new female in my life. Current spouse was upset I kept her in closet,hid her, explained her away, and spent left her almost every weekend to b/w my other family.
When I divorced my ex 5yrs ago I continued to file joint taxesw/ex-did so for 4yrs-even after I married new wife. Also I kept ex on car insurence listed as current spouse for 4 1/2yrs after divorce instead of current wife,and have ex on health insurance listed as spouse instead of current wife who recently had to go to ER when she became sick, and now has large bill, because she’s not covered.
Also I co-signed a loan for ex wife and siad nothing to current wife about it-new wife is upset about 20,000+ debt I incurred-ex wife defaulted on loan. New wife feels less than a wife to me. How can I straiten this out-have I been unfair to current wife ?
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