Im pissed, im not a very girly person and some people call me manly >:( - Help.com

Have you tried dressing like a girl and acting like a normal sexy girl, instead of being abbrasive?

i do dress like a girl. just not a girly girl. im a hair freak tho. thats the girliest thing about me, i spend a lot of time on my hair and im always messing with it.

tell them to **** off?

Tell me a common outfit that you would wear.

black tight jeans
shirt with grr from invader zim that says doom doom doom
checkerboard slip on vans or black n white onitsuka tiggers
big aligator watch with glitter on the face
big giant purple sunglasses
or aviators

thats me

i dress like a tomboy.

but its still girls clothes

you dress like my kind of girl.

i wouldnt worry about it. people like the ones you described are small minded and are not going anywhere with their sheltered lives. you are much more exposed to culture and life outside of the box. so just tell them to screw themselves.

hay! i said that.

Nothing. Be yourself. As you grow into yourself you’ll figure out a way to mix “girly” and “cool” into the same.

If you like the way you are than it doesn’t really matter what they say. I thought most of the girls at my high school were idiots too.

You don’t have to be an idiot, but it is okay to admit that you are in fact a girl sometimes.

i dress the exact same way you do, play guitar, and am in love with music, and people would say stupid stuff too. but once they found out i didnt give a fly f***, they dropped it. :)

Anonymous wrote:
black tight jeans
shirt with grr from invader zim that says doom doom doom
checkerboard slip on vans or black n white onitsuka tiggers
big aligator watch with glitter on the face
big giant purple sunglasses
or aviators

thats me

that’s hot! What’s wrong with that? Are the boys around you blind, stupid, or both?

Buy a dress and mix it up every once in a while. No reason why you can’t dress up and play girly girl too! Guys like women who can look like different things at different times. I can look like Wall Street or homeless, don’t define yourself with your “look”.

no i have a bf but hes cool that way he doesnt mind that im a tomboy

as for dresses… hate em. theres a weird breeze.

but believe me wen i have a good reason i can look nice
u no like weddings stuf like that i can dress up

Anonymous wrote:
but believe me wen i have a good reason i can look nice
u no like weddings stuf like that i can dress up

You sound like me at age 17. You’re fine, you’ll grow into it. Just do what ever you do.

Anonymous wrote:
but believe me wen i have a good reason i can look nice
u no like weddings stuf like that i can dress up

Do it all the time and in time it becomes natural.