i need help i cant yalk to any one about my marriage
with out them going spreading it around town ..the saying misery loves comrpany is true .today was my anniversary an i asked if anyting to have one day with out argueing but it didnt happen.i have been married now for two yearsan it repeadly getting worse . i asked her if she`s not happy to leave an i will give her a divorce she said no. i offered to leave for a weekend an let her get her things an i wont have any contact after thT SHE WONT.i have tryed to talk to her she dont wants to talk.i have to constly pay bills that she hasnt paid on .but she goes an pay 1500 to get her half brother out of jail for back child support.then a couple months laterpay 800 dollars on one of her friends rent .every two weeks she gives her nefew 200 . but doesnt do anything for my son .today i cooked all her favorite food an she threw it in the garbage can .we go weeks at atime with out having sex.i am tring not to cheat but its taking its toll on me .almost all my savings is gone from paying back bills .an she goes out an buy 185 in shoes an cloths an when i ask her why she would do that an we need things here at this house ,causeshe wanted to .i am starting to have headaches, an stomach pains i dont know what to do at this point she wont leavean if i do she comes on my job an i have to take a sick day in order to not get fired. i went to the police but the say they cant do anything because she is still on the lease .
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