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I can’t eat.

I have no will. I know I have to, I really do but I really dont care about eating. I think its because of guilt. Self Esteem maybe. I’m not huge or what some poeple would call ugly. I’m a 21 year old male that weighs 123 pounds. What the hell should I do.

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.:FaBulOciTy:. offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

eat a twinkie..

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

I dont know what to really tell you sorry..

See im addicted to not eating..

Like im big but i good big everyone loves me the way i am and they wish i would eat.. but i am addicted to going to see how long i can go without eating.. it has gotten easier and easier to not eat.. im not what you would call anorex because i am not like skinny and grose..

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Why don’t you care? Sounds like you have anorexia - its a psychological disorder, not common in males but still happens. My little cousin had this when he was younger.

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Itchen, M4, GB | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

find a food you enjoy
make it anjoyable to eat
make a smooothie
have a dinner party!!
go on a dinner date
forcing yourself to eat won’t help i assure youu, and talking may not hep either.
it might but unless its somethign you enjoy you might just slip bakc in to not wanting to eat!

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Itchen, M4, GB | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

.:FaBulOciTy:. wrote:
I dont know what to really tell you sorry..

See im addicted to not eating..

Like im big but i good big everyone loves me the way i am and they wish i would eat.. but i am addicted to going to see how long i can go without eating.. it has gotten easier and easier to not eat.. im not what you would call anorex because i am not like skinny and grose..

Having anorexia doesn’t mean you have to be really thin and tiny!
its all to do with the mindd
Ooh i used to do that, it was a challenge, a game!
but i can’t do it anymore ;)
it affects ym sport to muuch and will screw upmy metabolism!

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

Eat me? wrote:

.:FaBulOciTy:. wrote:
I dont know what to really tell you sorry..

See im addicted to not eating..

Like im big but i good big everyone loves me the way i am and they wish i would eat.. but i am addicted to going to see how long i can go without eating.. it has gotten easier and easier to not eat.. im not what you would call anorex because i am not like skinny and grose..

Having anorexia doesn’t mean you have to be really thin and tiny!
its all to do with the mindd
Ooh i used to do that, it was a challenge, a game!
but i can’t do it anymore ;)
it affects ym sport to muuch and will screw upmy metabolism!

I’m amazed at what people will tell themselves to avoid the truth of the matter.

Yes, its a game to destroy yourself slowly from the inside out. Sounds like great fun.

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Itchen, M4, GB | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

usurper wrote:

Eat me? wrote:
.:FaBulOciTy:. wrote:
I dont know what to really tell you sorry..

See im addicted to not eating..

Like im big but i good big everyone loves me the way i am and they wish i would eat.. but i am addicted to going to see how long i can go without eating.. it has gotten easier and easier to not eat.. im not what you would call anorex because i am not like skinny and grose..

Having anorexia doesn’t mean you have to be really thin and tiny!
its all to do with the mindd
Ooh i used to do that, it was a challenge, a game!
but i can’t do it anymore ;)
it affects ym sport to muuch and will screw upmy metabolism!

I’m amazed at what people will tell themselves to avoid the truth of the matter.

Yes, its a game to destroy yourself slowly from the inside out. Sounds like great fun.

i never had anoerixia and never will :)
it was always a game, because knew i would stop if i wanted!
ooooh it sounds twisted, but its not destroying myself.
its a dangerious game to play. but so is smoking, yet thousands die of it each year

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

I was more referring to the young lady up there who seems to think that just because she isnt the size of Micha Barton that means she doesn’t have anorexia.

But telling yourself its a game to try to not eat food for the fun of it is different than smoking. I’m not going to lecture you or anything, but seriously - it is a form of self destruction even if you’re not willing to admit it.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

Start a class on dieting… there are so many people that are fat that would love to be you it’s not funny.

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4 months, 4 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

This isn’t a game to me, or a challenge. Just wanted to see what people thought about the subject, I’ve been to the DRs. Pretty much a broken record for me. Thanks people.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

WOW.. umm i admitted that im addicted to not eating..
Id rather not eat then eat and have a heart attack cause im about to pop and cant get off the couch.. atleast im happy and its kinda like a game.. i can stop it anytime i want to but i dont want to stop it…

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