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my sister is 14 and has a drinking proble.

its getting to the point where she needs alcohol or else she gets sick. when i tell ger how it affects me she doesnt listen. when i tell her to stop she says no. if one of her friends does she wont drink that night. im really scared about her health but i dont know what to do without telling mom and betraying her trust.

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Hi,howareyou? offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

how does she hide it from your parents?

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

whoo cares ur sisters lifee is on the line tell ur freakinn parentss wtff r u kkddin

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

mal wrote:
whoo cares ur sisters lifee is on the line tell ur freakinn parentss wtff r u kkddin

sometimes when a kids parents find out their life is ruined until they leave. im homeschooled because my parents found out. i would keep it as an option, but a last resort.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

well i have friend that did that stuff and worse. then 1 of my frineds got caught and now she has probation and stuff. (and we re 13) it effected alot of people by having her go threw that. so my adise to u is to tell someone. it mite be mad and u mite lose trust but its better then lossing a life. and that is what it could lead up to. so i think u should tell. i made the mistake of not telling someone about my friend. and now i regrate it more then anything. if its that bad where she will get sick. u really need to tell someone. trust me i no.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

well, think about this. you don’t want to betray her trust. would you rather lose a friend, or lose the life of a friend? your choice.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

my frined thing is already tookin care of. but what im trying to say is i regret not telling someone. she culd get over being mad at me. i would rather her mad at me then to have that guilt of having the choice of helping her but not. she will get over it. her life and health i think should b more important. cause shes probably will thank u later on in life

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

i really think so

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